How do I know if my girl is with me for the right reasons - /adv/ (#33243022) [Archived: 1525 hours ago]

Anonymous
6/19/2025, 2:20:35 PM No.33243022
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So over the past 5 months I have gone on dates with this gorgeous Russian girl (I am in America). We have gotten super serious going first exclusive and then a proper couple 3 months ago and one month respectively. She is a very hard worker with a 4.0 gpa in a stem degree and clear career aspirations. Everything I have experienced with her so far has led me to fall harder and harder for her.

So what am I worried about? She isn’t a citizen and her student visa ends in a year. She hasn’t even hinted at marriage yet, but I would be a ticket to the green card. Additionally she knows I am well off. I have a good job and my parents are loaded (something I can’t really hide). Again she hasn’t shown signs of being a gold digger but I know woman can be subtle here.

So what do I do? How do I ensure she likes me for the right reasons?
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Anonymous
6/19/2025, 2:54:06 PM No.33243116
>>33243022 (OP)
Try being more humble, maybe even pretend that you went broke and are on a path to being poor. Show her love out of you heart, leave the monetary/material things behind. If she appreciates it with all her heart, she's won the test, if she ditches you, you were right to doubt her
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Anonymous
6/19/2025, 6:38:04 PM No.33243858
>>33243116
That is kind of hard for me to do. I just got promoted and travel a lot.
Anonymous
6/19/2025, 6:42:39 PM No.33243871
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>>33243022 (OP)
dyel? can you kick the shit out of her ex slavnigger bf?
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Anonymous
6/19/2025, 10:22:02 PM No.33244738
>>33243871
We are in America bro. Her slavnigger ex is too poor to reach me. Also yes I lift.
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Anonymous
6/20/2025, 7:35:03 AM No.33247419
>>33244738
I asked if you can beat her gopnik brothers but you gave a non-answer. either you lift or you dont. I Think you can make a good family withe some gopnikette, but you have to remember it's no different than trying to raise a family with some broad that had a drunk dad and wants a "traditional "family". You're either trying to raise trailer trash, or you're dealing with a princess
>too poor to reach me
Don't bank on it. You should expect that gopnik piece of shit to be at your door. this is why you lift. don't be a dopey cunt
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Anonymous
6/20/2025, 1:24:36 PM No.33248430
>>33247419
Because I don’t know if I can. Her ex is in the trenches of the Russo Ukrainian war bro.
Anonymous
6/20/2025, 1:26:14 PM No.33248433
>>33243022 (OP)
how old are you?