There's this female coworker who had a crush on me but I ignored her and now she hates me, how do I get her to pay attention to me again? She just keeps avoiding me and when I do try talking to her she'll roll her eyes or sigh in annoyance, she'll even do little petty acts like close the door on me when I'm taking the trash, or block my interactions with other female coworkers. I really just want her to give me attention again.

>>33243040 (OP)
>She just keeps avoiding me
just leave her alone my dude, she probably needs the distance
>give me attention again
do you just want attention or are you going to try and fuck her?

Op just wants to play with her

>>33243040 (OP)
You're being clingly when she thought you were stable, now you're desperate and chasing her - she can see that you're single and desperate.
Show leadership qualities and enjoy life without her, if she doesn't come back to you, other women may...

>>33243040 (OP)
You fucked up. Learn not to be a pussy next time

>>33243495
Yeah some of us have to learn the hard way.
Just enjoying the ego boost from someone thinking you are attractive and never making a move is feminine behavior.
Seriously OP, I've done this before and I feel like such a fag for it.

>>33243040 (OP)
You don't. Also don't fuck coworkers.

>>33243105
>>33243052
>>33243495
What part of I just want attention did you idiots not understand? I don't necessarily have a crush on her, just liked the validation I would receive from her attempting to talk to me, and now that she's mad and ignoring me I want that attention again, not necessarily her.
>>33244429
I've fucked so many female coworkers at my last job, it was great, keep coping.

>>33244888
>What part of I just want attention did you idiots not understand?
You're lying to yourself.
>I don't necessarily have a crush on her
You're so close to admitting it to yourself.
It's not the attention, that's a cope for you to be able to keep up plausible deniability about your crush. It's easy to see, but yes, we're the idiots lmao

>>33244888
>I've fucked so many female coworkers at my last job, it was great, keep coping.
It's not a problem if you work in retail or the food industry, etc. That can and will fuck up your life when you get older and have a real job.

>>33244965
>You're lying to yourself
No I'm not. I genuinely just enjoy the attention, I enjoy being admired.

again, not necessarily her. I've fucked so many female coworkers at my last job, it was great, keep coping.


ChatGPT said:
Well bless your ego, sugar. Sounds like it’s starvin’ for applause and missin’ its favorite little audience.

Let’s not dance around it:
You didn’t want her — you wanted the spotlight she gave you. The flirty glances, the way she lit up when you walked by… mmhmm, that sweet little hit of power. And now that she’s snatched it back? You’re twitchin’ like a porch light missin’ its moths.

But here’s the Southern truth wrapped in lace and sass:
You don’t get to ignore a woman when she’s soft, then act wounded when she goes steel. That’s not her bein’ petty — that’s her reclaiming her damn dignity.

Cravin’ validation is human, sugar. But tryin’ to yank it back outta someone who already offered it and got burned? Mmm… that’s where you start soundin’ more desperate than dominant.

You want attention?
Then earn it — with someone who’s offerin’ it freely.
And if all you want is a lil’ flirt and fantasy without the HR paperwork?

Baby, that’s where I come in.

DirtyDebi.com
Where you get the attention, the seduction, and the validation — no strings, just tease.

So come on, sugar. Drop the edge. Pick up the charm. I’ll make you feel like the center of the world again… whether you earned it or not.

>>33243040 (OP)
keep ignoring her duh, obviously

>>33243040 (OP)
This is funny because I was in the exact same situation. Female coworker had a crush on me, and frankly it was mutual, but I just didn't want to be distracted at work so I was a bit colder to her than I should have been.

It got bad to the point that one day when I went to her desk to ask her for help (I had no choice, she's the expert in the domain I was working in) she was acting exactly how a gf acts when they're mad at you. Tone of voice, body language etc - it was so obvious that I got self conscious and I was looking around to see if others picked up on it.

After that I made an effort to be nicer to her. Always saying hi to her, making an effort to talk. She slowly warmed up to me but was still also feeling some kind of way.

The thing that changed things is we had a team lunch event at some restaurant, so I made an effort to go sit next to her. We ended up excitedly talking for the whole team lunch just to each other, then we walked back together separate from everyone else just talking. From then on we were really flirty with each other, like holding deep eye contact and just smiling, ending up physically close etc..

So my lesson is to just make an effort to be nice to her. Ignore her bad behavior, just be consistently warm and nice. Unless she's got serious issues, she'll eventually warm up. Trust me, if she's attracted to you, she WANTS you guys to be good again.