Thread 33244072 - /adv/ [Archived: 915 hours ago]

Anonymous
6/19/2025, 7:51:59 PM No.33244072
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I have to go to this class every week. And at the end of the class, we have to go to the teacher to have our papers signed so we can get credit for the class.

Thing is, as we line up to get our papers signed, this guy always makes eye contact and says good day to you, or whatever, to everyone. But when it comes to me, he avoids eye contact and doesn't say anything. Just signs and gives me back my paper and that's it.

Should I feel like a bad person because of this?
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Anonymous
6/19/2025, 7:56:42 PM No.33244084
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>>33244072 (OP)
I won't read request to calibrate normality threads, especially those that are also much ado about nothing threads, posted by subhuman, formulaic, autistic retards.
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Anonymous
6/19/2025, 7:58:56 PM No.33244092
>>33244084
What?
Anonymous
6/19/2025, 7:59:27 PM No.33244093
>>33244072 (OP)
Do you?
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Anonymous
6/19/2025, 8:04:32 PM No.33244104
>>33244093
Kinda, yeah. Like why them and not me?
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Anonymous
6/19/2025, 8:51:03 PM No.33244282
>>33244104
It's soul crushing and dehumanizing
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Anonymous
6/20/2025, 9:37:46 AM No.33247871
>>33244282
:(
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Anonymous
6/20/2025, 10:18:31 AM No.33248008
>>33244072 (OP)
people probably told him something weird about you.
maybe don't go using a loli tshit to class or something.
Anonymous
6/20/2025, 1:02:53 PM No.33248392
>>33247871
:'(
Anonymous
6/20/2025, 1:13:25 PM No.33248406
>>33244072 (OP)
Psychologist here, son. Have my time

>Should I feel like a bad person because of this?
No

>when it comes to me, he avoids eye contact and doesn't say anything

Then clearly something is off. You made the first step – exercising your social and emotional awareness

You made the second step – asking for advice, meaning you want some meaningful change

Third step is following this advice. Instead of trying to mind read, guess, ask AI or 4chan of all places, as the human directly

Your parents and environment haven't taught you this. Its okay, I will

When you have an issue with someone, you find a time with them privately, and then you ask. In non judgmental, non shaming, non confrontational way, as if you are ordering food. Hey, I noticed there is something unusual going on how do you feel? Do we have an issue I am not aware of? Let me understand you better

And you shut up and listen. If you get filler – it is fine, I dont know, etc etc – you listen and ask again politely. If they dont budge, tell them that clearly you have a mutual misunderstanding here and when they are ready, they should talk to you. And you give them time

Reason can be anything, from your face reminding them of someone, something you did, something you said, your race, the way you talk. It doesnt matter

The real issue is that you behave like enemies and strangers, while you are two human beings with not that different lives

The real issue here is you lacking these small talk skills and applied emotional intelligence. Practice, develop, learn, grow
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Anonymous
6/20/2025, 1:58:15 PM No.33248497
>>33248406
>Psychologist here, son. Have my time
Damn, bitch, how much do I owe you? You take Medicaid?
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Anonymous
6/20/2025, 2:06:27 PM No.33248520
>>33248497
Best currency is you entering a new chapter of your life. You are enough as you are, but can always do better. Its not your fault you are not taught, but its your responsibility to excel and be happy

Godspeed
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Anonymous
6/20/2025, 9:10:34 PM No.33250387
>>33248520
>Godspeed
Damn