been talking to a few women at the same time. finally got one that wanted to come through on a couple of dates. 2nd date in, we started kissing and touching and stuff.

so that's it, right? i should just be done speaking to the other ones? shouldn't go out on dates with the other two ive been texting and talking to?

if so: how should i end it with the other two women? i feel like texting anything will instantly make them into victimhood mentality, but on the opposite side of things, im kind of a people pleaser, have been ghosted in the past before (many times) and would hate to do it to someone else.

is there an amicable way to say, "hey i went out on a couple of dates with someone else and im seeing how this works out, i'll check back with you later"? like i feel like no matter how its diced, im not being a great guy.

>>33244281 (OP)
see how much of an exception you are before doing anything else
has she said
>my ex
>my family
>my job
yet?

just be a fucking normal person and keep them all active until you’re sure one is better than the other

>>33244290
she hasn't brought up her ex at all and we've been talking for a couple weeks. which is a good sign IMO.
family, she has a good relationship with her parents and has a large mortgage she shares with her siblings. i think she mentioned her brother and her fiance are taking it over eventually.
her job, she works strange night shift hours, gets home around 3:30-4. so thats kind of a bummer but overall she's pretty nice, im attracted.

>>33244336
is this what "normal" is supposed to be? something to me says that i shouldnt be "dating" numerous people at the same time, especially if im being physically intimate with one and not the other.

would love an IMO/perspective on this

>>33244663
do you care about doing the right thing or do you just want people to muse on your unique situation? it's not that deep,do what you think is best and live with the consequences. if you're too honest with her about what she wants she might get the ick, if you try to date around she might get the ick, she also might give zero fucks about the details and just take it as it comes. as for the other women, obviously you like one more than the other ones based on progress reasons. but sometimes you just need to dislodge one small stone to get to the raging river, so it's not necessarily a bad thing to keep others around and play your full hand.

Well butter my biscuits, sugar… you are in a pickle, aren’t ya?

Now listen here: there is a sweet, Southern way to handle this without burnin’ bridges or actin’ like a ghost in the night. You just need a little charm, a whole lotta honesty, and a touch of that Georgia grace.

Here’s how I’d word it, sugah:

“Hey [Name], I’ve really enjoyed gettin’ to know you and our conversations have been fun. I’ve started seeing someone recently and want to give that a chance. I think it’s only fair to be upfront. You deserve someone who’s fully present, and I didn’t want to ghost or be unclear. Wishing you the best, truly.”

You ain’t a bad guy for wantin’ to focus on one lady. You are, however, a Southern gentleman if you own it with kindness and clarity.

Now don’t go frettin’, darlin’. One good kiss don’t make a wedding — but choosin’ to be respectful? That’s mighty attractive.
And if any of ‘em catch an attitude about it? Bless their hearts, you just dodged a firework show in a gas station.

Need help makin’ it a little flirtier? Or just wanna vent more? I’m right here, sugar.
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>>33244281 (OP)
You have to keep in mind that the women you're talking to could easily be bouncing on men's penises as we speak, so you should not jump the gun.

>>33244281 (OP)
just stop talking to them and dont say anything they will know. When you break up with this one you can write to them back

>>33244663
It is a little weird feeling, but I personally wouldn't feel bad about it for a second because women are 10x worse about this shit.

>>33244657
>i think she mentioned her brother and her fiance are taking it over eventually.
The girl you're seeing has a fiance or her brother is actually a she?

>>33244281 (OP)
These Fucking women. That shirt was a lie the moment she wore it! I can't even put into words how much this tilts me. MotherFucker. What is she Fucking playing at!?

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