Anonymous
6/19/2025, 10:01:30 PM No.33244621
To start, this isn't an incel thread really. I've had girls in the past, and it's only been about two months since my last relationship. If I really wanted to, I could "grind" and in about 2 or 3 months find some mid bitch off a dating app to be my regular squeeze.
But, I don't want a relationship, at least not right now. Every time I go through a breakup, either initiated by me or the girl, I feel emotionally gutted. I can't keep doing that just to nut, I want the next girl I seriously commit to, to be the girl I marry. Also, I just have too much shit to do right now. I'm in the process of building up a business right now and I don't have time for all the rigamarole of a relationship, like going on dates and being "emotionally present," etc. But I really, REALLY want sex and I've been unusually bricked up lately.
My ideal situation would be to have a regular fuckbuddy, but there's no girls in my social circle up for that. And I'm not ugly but I'm also not attractive enough to get ONS or hookups off dating apps.
So the question becomes, what to do? How can I tamp down my desire for sex and intimacy so I can lock in on what's important for the next few months or years?
I know removing sources of temptation (like stop watching this slanty-eyed minx prance around) will help, but I'll always see attractive women IRL anyway. What can I do to keep myself on track and relieve the horny?
>inb4 prostitutes
I've used them regularly but not only is it getting expensive and risky because of disease, it just isn't fun anymore. I want to be intimate without one of us watching the clock to see when the hour's up.
>jerk off
nah
But, I don't want a relationship, at least not right now. Every time I go through a breakup, either initiated by me or the girl, I feel emotionally gutted. I can't keep doing that just to nut, I want the next girl I seriously commit to, to be the girl I marry. Also, I just have too much shit to do right now. I'm in the process of building up a business right now and I don't have time for all the rigamarole of a relationship, like going on dates and being "emotionally present," etc. But I really, REALLY want sex and I've been unusually bricked up lately.
My ideal situation would be to have a regular fuckbuddy, but there's no girls in my social circle up for that. And I'm not ugly but I'm also not attractive enough to get ONS or hookups off dating apps.
So the question becomes, what to do? How can I tamp down my desire for sex and intimacy so I can lock in on what's important for the next few months or years?
I know removing sources of temptation (like stop watching this slanty-eyed minx prance around) will help, but I'll always see attractive women IRL anyway. What can I do to keep myself on track and relieve the horny?
>inb4 prostitutes
I've used them regularly but not only is it getting expensive and risky because of disease, it just isn't fun anymore. I want to be intimate without one of us watching the clock to see when the hour's up.
>jerk off
nah