2nd job i hold where my main colleage implies im autistic just because im not capable of having banter and chit chat about nothing for 8 hours a day. I know im not the most spontaneous person, maybe even boring or antisocial, but hey im capable of small talk. My socialization energy just drains pretty quick.
And normies seem to expect everyone to be capable of near constant chatter, small talk, banter, etc, for basically any time they're awake.

What do i even do?
Being less talkative makes me dislikable at most jobs or i can come off as arrogant, wierd, etc even if i work my ass off or do favors to others

Ngl you sound autistic.

>>33245260 (OP)
>And normies seem to expect everyone to be capable of near constant chatter, small talk, banter, etc, for basically any time they're awake.
>What do i even do?
Talk about what you're actually interested in and they can't keep up.

>>33245260 (OP)
Talking more doesn't make you likable. It's how your nonverbal mannerisms come across and what you say/how you say things when you do talk that shapes people's perceptions of you.

>>33245260 (OP)
Unironically, picrel. The book's like $9 and it's not very long.

>>33245260 (OP)
You're going in boiling with anger. Your negative thoughts from past mistreatment are doing that. When you go in with boiled anger, people assume you are pissed at them. They go like, what the fuck is his problem? Because you give off Jeffrey Dahmer looks. It isn't your fault you have this problem, as lots of people have it. What you need to do is try to find something positive everyday, hold on to that positive thing, and your body will reflect positivity than negativity. If you mask positivity rather than honestly have it, you will come off as this sort of sarcastic pissed off sort of way, which still makes people think what the fuck is his problem.

TLDR; if you honestly think positively people will react positively.

>>33246605
>You're going in boiling with anger.
i am not, im just very low energy and not a big talker. Now im just annoyed but i was hoping i could just be one of the ugy

>>33245260 (OP)
I need the same help too guys!!