>hang out with chick for a year
>never get any action
>confess my feelings (yes I know this is a mistake)
>she cringes but keeps me around as a friend for some reason
>I start feeling like an orbiter/simp
>stop hanging out with her
>after a while she starts texting me again
>we hang out again
>make out, feel up her tits, etc., basically everything except actually bang
>"this is never happening again"
>"its just a one time thing"
>"I'm never sleeping with you"
>*makes out more before I leave her place anyways*

So what's up with this? Can I get laid as long as I play it cool? Anyone else been in this situation, because I honestly thought it was over after I confessed my feelings like a little bitch.

Gross, dude. Have some self respect. Why would you even want pity from a woman?

Should have said "I don't wanna sleep either heheh"

>>33245618 (OP)
You've got other problems but I won't illuminate you unless you reply and let me know you're here.

>>33245618 (OP)
you must understand that chick loves attention and she cannot get enough of it. she will probably get with you given enough time. just don't know whether that'll be a few days or a few years. if she ever feels lonely enough she'll be coming to you. personally i'd cut that bitch out of my life. fuck being emotionally tied to some cunt that treats attention like a currency. but if you just wanna smash then you can keep her in your pocket the same way she's keeping you in hers.

>>33245618 (OP)
>>she cringes but keeps me around as a friend for some reason
She likes the attention. That's also why she reached out to you and baited you. She will never fuck you, but she will give you a pity makeout every so often to keep you in orbit.

>>33246183
>to keep you in orbit.
nta but what is the thought-process of having orbiters for a girl?

Ignoring her makes her want you. So yes if you literally no contact her it will drive her crazy and probably lead her to fuck you. Its at least worth a shot

honestly it's less pathetic to just sleep with an escort at this point ffs

It's just a neo-hipster liberal weird thing. People do this all the time to trash traditional expectations. Right now all the expectations people had during the 1980s and 1990s are being trashed.

>>33245618 (OP)
Sweet mercy, are you lame or what?
She was begging you to take charge, push her down, and fuck her until she came 5 times.
She wants a strong, dominant man
That's not you

>>33245618 (OP)
I say only give her attention when she is sexual now and don't burn bridges considering your goals

if you can close this bitch down you’ll regret it your whole life. she clearly wants you. don’t be a bitch and make it happen

>>33246441
Women like attention as much as men like sex. Knowing that, it's pretty self-explanatory.

>>33245618 (OP)
some girls are like that
a girl I was seeing would say no to any advance I make but would ask for us to meet and come back to my place
and in my place I sucked on her tits and fondled her all over
we never got to fuck but we kissed and did foreplay plentily.
I got tired of her because I have other options but if that wasn't the case I'm pretty sure we would be fucking by now
some girls just LOVE playing hard to get, even against their own better judgement or past what makes sense, it's just what turns them on I think.

>>33245618 (OP)
>>"this is never happening again"
>>"its just a one time thing"
>>"I'm never sleeping with you"
"Yeah I agree, we're not gonna bang"
(Take off her panties and put her hand on your boner)