Am I a beta for waiting until marriage for a girl who is not a virgin? I always anticipated marrying a virgin (I grew up in a devout religious community), and it pained me to find out the girl I am seeing is not a virgin. I feel extra distraught by the idea of waiting until marriage for someone like this. And yes, she is also religious & same community

>>33245642 (OP)
It doesn't matter. What matters is that you're happy, that she's happy, that you can trust her and that you love each other. The past of both of you, in that regards, is completely irrelevant.

>>33245748
Woman post.

OP, don't listen to that broad trying to tell you that past behavior doesn't matter. You're a cuck if you let a woman place boundaries on you she didn't place on other men.

>>33245808
It's the truth. If she's the love of your life what does it matter if she is not a virgin? Go find yourself a virgin, if it's all you want, but don't complain if the emotional connection isn't there.

>>33245642 (OP)
I don't know if it's "beta" but it is definitely retarded.

>>33245642 (OP)
She couldn't wait for other men but can I wait for you. That is all you need to know and what filter you need to look at her behavior through for the rest of the relationship.

>>33245642 (OP)
That is a bit cringe. You might as well either fuck her or find someone in the same religion.