3 weeks to my date - /adv/ (#33247470) [Archived: 784 hours ago]

Anonymous
6/20/2025, 7:45:07 AM No.33247470
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I have a date in 3 weeks. that is a long ass time and only risks losing the energy.
I don't want to leap frog the date with other activates but I also dont want to wait.
we see each other once a week and text every few days.
what is the play here?
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Anonymous
6/20/2025, 8:27:54 AM No.33247621
>>33247470 (OP)
she has 3 weeks to make an excuse and back out. take action and do something first. don't have to leapfrog your date just maybe coffee or something small.
Anonymous
6/20/2025, 8:59:15 AM No.33247737
>>33247470 (OP)
Have non-date dates in between - just hangouts or coffee time or other informal meets
Anonymous
6/20/2025, 4:34:45 PM No.33249062
>>33247470 (OP)
>we see each other once a week
>planning a date 3 weeks in advance
if ya'll text regularly and see each other at least once a week, planning a date "3 weeks from now" means she's going to make an excuse not to go and/or ghost you.

If you actually talk a girl into a date, never let more than a few days go by. They lose interest much faster than they gain interest.
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Anonymous
6/20/2025, 6:45:21 PM No.33249754
>>33249062
To piggy-back off this-

If you match with a girl or meet a girl IRL and you try to set up a date but she says she isn't free until the following week(s), there is a very high chance that you're just not on the priority list. Pretty much every girl that has either A) said they were busy until next week or B) won't be arriving for X amount of weeks, we never ended up meeting.

Maybe out of 20 girls that have said that to me, I've only met maybe 3.

>>33247470 (OP)
You leave out a lot of context in your post. You have a date in 3 weeks but you've already been seeing each other once a week. For how long? If you've been dating for awhile, then 3 weeks isn't a big deal if you're both busy. The longest in between date time for me would be about 2 weeks because I had to go home for a week and then got sick. She was the one to keep and initiate contact with me.

But usually the more time between dates the chance of her finding a reason to not go out with you. UNLESS she is so undoubtedly attracted to you that the time apart only makes her more excited to see you.
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Anonymous
6/20/2025, 7:58:01 PM No.33250100
>>33249754
The three weeks thing is because it's after an event we are both going to. I definitely realize it's not a great sign but it's also very practical.
Anonymous
6/21/2025, 12:54:23 AM No.33251356
>>33249062
Maybe. I think it makes sense based on our mutual schedules.

She is very flirty with me.
Anonymous
6/21/2025, 6:35:34 AM No.33252650
> 3 weeks

and I thought the 2 weeks niggas were cooked.
Anonymous
6/21/2025, 1:52:02 PM No.33253655
this just happened to me so I ghosted her
Anonymous
6/21/2025, 8:01:53 PM No.33255088
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I got a hang out next Monday.
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Anonymous
6/21/2025, 8:13:23 PM No.33255146
>>33255088
Checked and based.
Anonymous
6/22/2025, 5:50:40 AM No.33257177
>>33249062
>They lose interest much faster than they gain interest.
Bullshit. I almost never do that because I've got stuff to do, and also to weed out the attention seekers and the annoying chicks who need to constantly hog your time.
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Anonymous
6/22/2025, 6:05:21 AM No.33257235
>>33257177
There were talking about girls not guys.
I think the poster might be right that girls can loose attention kind of fast.
Anonymous
6/22/2025, 9:53:57 PM No.33259807
Will you put the spaghetti in my pocket already sauced or do I wait till dinner to add sauce?
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Anonymous
6/23/2025, 7:58:51 AM No.33262113
>>33259807
Sauce in pocket so it's always ready, obviously.

Tomorrows hang out is up in the air as most people in the group got busy. Will inform later.
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Anonymous
6/23/2025, 7:33:45 PM No.33264299
>>33262113
My Monday meet up became a Tuesday meet up.