How do I tell potential partners that I am planning to do some plastic surgery for my nose/eyes/labia so if you are slightly annoyed with them if you stay with me they will change .

I want a boyfriend right now before I start saving since it will take long and I am too lonely and depressed to wait so I want someone to love me while I do

>>33247859 (OP)
when you say labia you mean your pussy lips?
don't change that.
also pics of your nose and eyes so we can see if they're worth operating and not just serious body dysmorphia
I would actually leave a girl obsessed with looksmaxing, sounds like a never ending obsession that only ends when the person looks hideous in everyone's eyes except themselves.

If you assume a guy will be annoyed by your looks, you’re already judging him. Not every man is shallow or obsessed with tiny flaws. Some actually like you as you are.

Telling someone “I’ll get surgery so just stay” makes it sound like you think he wouldn’t want you otherwise. That’s not fair. You’re putting insecurity on him that he didn’t ask for.

If you want love now, stop treating yourself like a project and stop acting like he’s just waiting for a better version of you. That’s how you lose real ones.

>>33247859 (OP)
people like you invariably end up looking like shit
plus it sets a horrible example for your future kids
find a stupid guy who cannot foresee those problems, or serve as a pump and dump forever

>>33248015
I mean I have bad eye circles and grog eyes. Nose has septum issues. I promise not to overdue it I just want to become beatiful enough to be loved honestly

>>33247859 (OP)
Did you go on an exercise and diet routine for at least 6-12 months?
I feel like this should be required before anyone is allowed to do plastic surgery.

>>33247859 (OP)
>labia surgery
LMAO at roasties. No man will ever love you fucking ugly bitch.

>>33247859 (OP)
Will you stay with your bf though after looxmaxing? Asking this because you may get much better, richer, higher quality options as mentioned only think with their dicks.
Let me make you a counter proposition. No amount of looxmaxxing can fix your shitty genes a d when you do have children, those shitty genes will manifest.
Rather than spending exorbant amount of money on fixing your looks, why not just use a Chad's sperm and have a daughter and in exchange why don't you lend your uterus to your bf/future hubby so he can implant an embryo that was fertilised using his sperm and that of a legit stacey's eggs? You get to have beautiful daughter, he gets to have a handsome son and both of end up ascending your genetic lineage. Genemaxxing is the ultimate loooxmaxxing

>>33248457
Based roastie detector. Imagine unironically conversing with roast beef sandwiches.

>>33248563
They still have a uterus and ovaries that you desperately chase after. Kek. Good luck making artificial wombs or ovaries faggot. You will be a slave to the female will and you will be satisfied with it

>>33247859 (OP)
You want a contradiction in terms, so I won't read any further.

Absolutely do not "fix" your labia. Whatever your issue with it is, there is man for whom your pussy is a 10. Especially if its flappy & meaty

>>33248220
I mean that doesn't really change the eyes

>>33248032
I get it anon, but you know appearance and changingbit is a big deal especially as a woman and everyone putting me down even itt

>>33248457
I mean I mog you since you are a overweight man who is also permasinle so I will be ok

>>33248044
Fuck you not happening

Foids don’t use incel jargon. Shit b8

>>33252692
Moid you are retarded

>>33248538
At this point just not reproduce

>>33247859 (OP)
>another dumbshit woman gets BOGGED
you love to see it

>>33248897
How?
>>33253272
I am not and will not also you are a cunt

>>33247859 (OP)
I will stop loving you if you do.

>>33253530
Why

>>33253606
Can't condone vanity surgery.

>>33253673
Relationships are vain to some extent since attraction is

>>33253691
Still can't condone vanity surgery.

>>33253414
You're already answering the call, dear.
Just a little more surgery, I'm sure the next one will fix everything!

>>33253261
reproduction is the only known way for LIFE to cheat DEATH & circumvent ENTROPY, RETARD.
If you can't better your genes, associate it with those who've it better and that has been LIFE's strategy ever since sexual mode of reproduction became a thing. The arrangement I'd proposed benefits both the woman, the man, the children and the whole genepool these people are going to create and be part of. Surgery fixes absolutely nothing except maybe it can increase the possibility of making money if you think looks is associated with career success or increases the odds of forming better social networks

>>33248921
Kinda agree on this one. Sure the little tiny compact ones are cute, but nothing milks you out like a meaty wizard sleeve.

Honestly?

Probably don't do it.

Unless something is obnoxious, you're chasing pain/expense for nothing.

Your living conditions dictate a lot for looks. Are you stressing? Sleeping enough? Diet/exercise? etc? Lots of things can be remedied without surgery.

And, labia, well... So many women are insecure about this for no reason. Any man worth a damn won't care about this and will love you as you are.

>>33253869
Copium

>>33254278
Truei should probably stop being so stressed, lose some weight even though I am thin and exercise more but like men are so picky like my cute nerdy ex who I worshiped as a 10/10 man put down my appearance so now I feel I need to get surgery to actually be loved

>>33255956
>get surgery to actually be loved
You're gonna be sorely disappointed.

>>33256072
I mean I already got a nosejob and suddenly people are nicer to me and find me more attractive

>>33248921
Stop trolling me lol, I mean I want to also do it because one o am buckbroken and to itd be easier wipping ig

>>33255956
Nobody will ever love you, you fucking ugly bitch.

>>33247859 (OP)
don't get plastic surgery you will look appalling as fuck and in 3 years time you will look 30 years older

>>33258512
Kys

>>33256799
Im being serious you retarded foid. I am literally an expert in vaginal aesthetics. Dont tell me what you should do with your pussy. Keep the flaps.

>>33250487
You don't need to change your eyes. No one rejects a woman because of her eyes, they reject women because they're fat or out of shape.

>>33255956
Men aren't picky. The 9/10+ men that you are chasing are. Maybe instead of artificially bogging yourself to shoot out of your league you should just date a man on your level.

Imagine how you would think of a guy if he did the same thing. Imagine a guy is short and he gets leg lengthening surgery to make himself taller and attractive so he can get hotter women. Tell me what you'd think of a guy doing that. Would you date him?

>>33262336
>shoot out of your league
Ew if you don't find me perfect I don't want you

>>33256799
>>33261538
Porn is just filled with ideal innie porn pussies so obviously that is the taste of most men. But honestly, I think you shouldn't try to aim for "most men" or just some coomer guy. If a man LOVES you, he will adore every part of you and probably find that part of you cute.

I wanted that surgery myself and I still hate it, I remember being terrified of telling my bf (we were long distance) when he asked, I literally just dodged the question. And he asked again eventually so I "confessed" feeling like I was about to die but he wasn't the least bit turned off, he really is into it and despite my inner disgust makes me feel like I'm delicious exactly as I am.

My point is just... I really emphasize with how you feel with the surgeries and all, but men cheat on super models (Adriana Lima for example) and 10/10 pornstars just really don't want to attract someone who is shallow or who is annoyed by how you look. Try and find a soul connection, two people who genuinely care for each other.

>>33262336
women just can afford to be picky and before you screech that it is immoral or whatnot, nothing in life is moral or amoral. It's all about power. Women have the power to exert their will over you & determine your genetic fate and you must either learn to be content with it or try your luck exerting your will over them which you most probably cannot as you lack male unity of any kind and men are on average desperate back stabbing subhuman plebs who'll indulge in cheapest of the cheap beahviour just so they can get some used up, ugly, fat old hag who in all likelihood will cuck you anyways. Such is the pathetic state of the nu male that he'd much rather rot in loneliness & screech online as to how unfair & psychopathic the gynocracy is, or lick the heels of the gynocracy himself in the hopes getting tiny crumbs only get his balls squashed & get neutered forever. Men simply don't have the balls nor brains to revolt against then gynocracy degeneracy.

>>33263704
Most men like flaps and meat pussy. You are retarded

>>33264185
>most popular porn is almost exclusively innies (they cast what sells)
>best selling OnlyFans girls and escorts have majority innies

Yeah ok buddy.

>>33247859 (OP)
Honestly just learn how to be a whore in bed. Swallow his dick, have him cum in your throat, let him fuck you in the ass, cum on your face, initiate sex and act like you enjoy it. And then just be nice to him. He will stay. It's not hard for women to keep a guy happy.

>>33264229
https://thelordofporn.com/top-50-pornstars-with-big-pussy-lips-large-labia

>>33247859 (OP)
Plastic surgery is ugly

>>33264246
https://thelordofporn.com/top-50-real-bbw-pornstars

Well I guess all men love fat women now right?

You have no reading comprehension. Yes, some men like "beafy pussies" but even though innies are the minority IRL they are hugely overrepresented in porn and Onlyfans and escorts, meaning that men strongly select for them and prefer them.

im curious on the other end of the spectrum: as a guy looking to do several hardmaxxing procedures (and already finished a few like rhinoplasty and hair transplant), are these things i should disclose or better kept secret?

>>33264108
>nothing is moral or amoral
stopped reading your little estrogen fueled larp there. face the wall now please.

>>33265534
Why would you lie tard. What are you getting next

>>33264108
Pink pilled

>>33265826
what ya gonna do incel? Go ahead with your supposed doomsday revolt and let's see how far you go with your little gang of basement dwellers who can't even run a mile, socialise with other men irl, organize, etc..

>>33247859 (OP)
Work on virtuemaxing and holinessmaxing and men and will love you and most importantly you'll love yourself.
Disregard the vanities of the world, dont deform yourself with surgeries.

>>33248921
Is this true? Are you joking? Not OP but have also considered labioplasty because of all the "beef curtain" jokes. I have never heard of a man preferring long labia.

>>33266688
Wouldn’t fuck with the first one
Second guy looks like a bitch

Why are males becoming vain and cliquey like women?

>>33247859 (OP)
Plastic surgery bogs women, it's so sad.... I met one like that it's so sad, she seemed maybe interested but completely bogged off, so even though I want a girlfriend she was now really ugly. I thought she was russian, when she wasn't at all, because of the plastic surgery features. I couldn't tell her. In some way in fact it filters women who are strong-willed or not, those who are shallow and think attraction is only about body feature and that fail under the jewish beauty-butchers, it's like these jeiwsh "doctors" of the devil did soil them. In fact it's not like they soiled them, they really did.

>>33266779
This, what I search in a woman is principles, a personnality, virtue, true love/charity,... not at all a certain aspect. then physical aspects can get interpreted differently and in a positive way because of the positive nature of the beholder.