Should I go to my BPD cunt mother’s funeral? She treated me like garbage and fucked me over pretty much every step of my life and frankly if it were up to her I’d be homeless working 12 hours for minimum wage for life. Literally everything she did was to sabotage me or hurt me in some way. Frankly I couldn’t give less of a shit about her and was downright euphoric when she died from alcohol and pills. I think everyone was including her parents. I don’t want to go to the funeral because fuck her and I don’t want spend the money for a plane to go there but my super simp enabler dad is threatening to take me out of the will if I don’t go. He would pretty much act my moms attack dog whenever I was being “bad” which means not going along with whatever crazy shit she was doing or taking her abuse with a smile. What should I do?

>>33248329 (OP)
Tell him to fuck himself and follow her by roping himself

>>33248329 (OP)
Just go, make your dad happy so you get the inheritance and that's it.

>>33248329 (OP)
1 last time
Spit on her grave

>>33248329 (OP)
Use it as an opportunity to have closure, to make yourself aware that its now truly, finally and irrevocably over. Bonus points if any siblings or other people she fucked over are also there, commiserate a bit and remind yourself that you're not alone if thats the case.

>>33248329 (OP)
How big is the inheritance? If it's substantial, you should go out of practicality and just dip out as soon as you can.

>>33248329 (OP)
I went through the same thing. Mother had BPD. Abused me for as long as she was around. She committed suicide. I didn't go to her funeral because I was uncomfortable with the idea of being in a room full of people praising my abuser. I am glad that I didn't. I ended up being blamed for my mother's suicide despite being a child because I moved in with my grandma to get away from the abuse. Consequently cut out of multiple wills. I don't care. Her adoptive family basically saw me as an extension of her and wanted me to be like a substitute for her following her death. Nope. Happier not playing that role.

>>33248329 (OP)
I would say I don't capitulate with blackmail nor do I trust someone who would blackmail me.

It will help you forgive her, in turn helping you feel better about yourself in the future. I really think you should do it.