How do I ask my boyfriend if he hates me without sounding like a bpd menace? We're both dudes/monogamous/cohabitating

>>33255716 (OP)
>both dudes
Maybe this is just a straight guy not getting how you homos work, but if you're fucking a guy isn't one of the big advantages that you can just directly ask whatever you want?

>>33255721
Im a little bitch though with the insecurity and neediness of a fat female. Trying to keep a lid on it

>>33255716 (OP)
if he hated you would he be with you though, I mean does he behave like he hates you? does he quip at you? does he behave cunty? is he cold, if no then stop being a faggot

>>33255737
Yeah hes cold and sex feels disconnected like the chemistry is gone. Only kisses me when he leaves for work. No physical or verbal affection anymore.

>>33255740
(NTA) i doubt he hates you, but he probably doesn't like you as much as he used to. Just talk to him: but use "I" statements, not "you" statements.

>>33255716 (OP)
>How do I ask my boyfriend if he hates me without sounding like a bpd menace?

you don't. Asking if he hates you is instantly confrontational and running to an extreme. Skipping a few levels, anon.

>>33255754
How do you rectify this

>>33255754
>>33255873
Or i guess im asking if its possible to rekindle the feelings we had for each other?

>>33255716 (OP)
He wants to be straight

>>33255716 (OP)
You should totally just ask that. Even better ask him multiple times a day to the point he starts actually hating you and your feelings are justified. Also check his phone and stalk him to make sure he's not cheating on you for bonus points

I dont know what to do i just want everything to go back to how it was before :( ive been praying asking God for guidance hoping an answer or like a moment of clarity will come to me but I feel so lost still