Anonymous
6/22/2025, 12:18:41 AM No.33255946
How do I become a guy that doesn't need social interaction?
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Thread 33255946 - /adv/ [Archived: 1484 hours ago]
Anonymous
6/22/2025, 1:13:43 AM No.33256123
>>33255946 (OP)
Your question implies that you don't want social interaction, while your use of the word "need" implies that you do. Resolve the contradiction in order to get a useful answer.
Your question implies that you don't want social interaction, while your use of the word "need" implies that you do. Resolve the contradiction in order to get a useful answer.
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Anonymous
6/22/2025, 1:17:25 AM No.33256138
>>33255946 (OP)
You fucks missed the point of the movie. Again.
You fucks missed the point of the movie. Again.
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Anonymous
6/22/2025, 1:18:49 AM No.33256147
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Anonymous
6/22/2025, 1:21:30 AM No.33256160
>>33256147
Movie is absolutely picrel whether we realize it or not.
>Ok how do I stop myself being social
You're a social organism. You can't without an intervention that would make you temporarily or permanently retarded. Like, more retarded than you already are.
Movie is absolutely picrel whether we realize it or not.
>Ok how do I stop myself being social
You're a social organism. You can't without an intervention that would make you temporarily or permanently retarded. Like, more retarded than you already are.
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Anonymous
6/22/2025, 1:22:10 AM No.33256163
>>33256160
so how do i force myself to enjoy it then?
so how do i force myself to enjoy it then?
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Anonymous
6/22/2025, 1:22:46 AM No.33256166
>>33255946 (OP)
>>33256147
You don't. It's a need that stems from human ontology. A complete lack of need for others would be a defect, and not something desirable. I've had the same thought myself.
>>33256147
You don't. It's a need that stems from human ontology. A complete lack of need for others would be a defect, and not something desirable. I've had the same thought myself.
Anonymous
6/22/2025, 1:26:17 AM No.33256179
>>33256163
How did you determine you need it and what do you think makes you not enjoy it?
How did you determine you need it and what do you think makes you not enjoy it?
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Anonymous
6/22/2025, 1:27:06 AM No.33256182
>>33256179
well you said i can't without intervention
well you said i can't without intervention
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Anonymous
6/22/2025, 1:34:34 AM No.33256224
>>33256182
No, you said you need it in the OP.
>How do I become a guy who doesn't need social interaction?
So how did you determine you are a guy who needs social interaction? And what do you think makes you dislike it?
No, you said you need it in the OP.
>How do I become a guy who doesn't need social interaction?
So how did you determine you are a guy who needs social interaction? And what do you think makes you dislike it?
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Anonymous
6/22/2025, 1:37:49 AM No.33256242
>>33256224
i just feel better being alone but somehow my brain tricks me into browsing here some days or wants to listen to co-workers. I'm just selfish and hate listening to other people about themselves. I'm just a cunt really that's all
i just feel better being alone but somehow my brain tricks me into browsing here some days or wants to listen to co-workers. I'm just selfish and hate listening to other people about themselves. I'm just a cunt really that's all
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Anonymous
6/22/2025, 1:43:30 AM No.33256266
>>33256242
That's good you can go to work. A lot of us here struggle to do that or just won't do it. Your description of your situation in this here post makes your psyche clearer but only a little bit. I can't fully tell what's going on with ya from this 4chan interaction, partly because I'm not a psychologist and partly because this is a very limited, virtual interaction. In my experience, most people don't like hearing what everyone has to say, especially if they're not in a great mood. Not everyone is an enormous social butterfly. There are gray areas. Moreover, trying to survive on the fuzzy feelings given to you by 4chan and coworker small talk sounds pretty dire, like the affection equivalent of trying to survive on small drops of water.
That's good you can go to work. A lot of us here struggle to do that or just won't do it. Your description of your situation in this here post makes your psyche clearer but only a little bit. I can't fully tell what's going on with ya from this 4chan interaction, partly because I'm not a psychologist and partly because this is a very limited, virtual interaction. In my experience, most people don't like hearing what everyone has to say, especially if they're not in a great mood. Not everyone is an enormous social butterfly. There are gray areas. Moreover, trying to survive on the fuzzy feelings given to you by 4chan and coworker small talk sounds pretty dire, like the affection equivalent of trying to survive on small drops of water.
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Anonymous
6/22/2025, 1:45:15 AM No.33256273
>>33255946 (OP)
Unfortunately, it is impossible. You need social interaction like you need a healthy diet and exercise. Yeah, you can survive without it, but you are going to get less and less healthy over time, and you will end up insane. Humans are highly social animals, and our brains evolved to have to interface with each other to be healthy. It's fucking gay and retarded but that's how it is, man. Sorry.
Unfortunately, it is impossible. You need social interaction like you need a healthy diet and exercise. Yeah, you can survive without it, but you are going to get less and less healthy over time, and you will end up insane. Humans are highly social animals, and our brains evolved to have to interface with each other to be healthy. It's fucking gay and retarded but that's how it is, man. Sorry.
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Anonymous
6/22/2025, 1:46:23 AM No.33256278
>>33256242
If you don't fix your attitude, you'll end up sad and alone like me and many others. It's hard for introverts/autists/schizos but we must force ourselves.
If you don't fix your attitude, you'll end up sad and alone like me and many others. It's hard for introverts/autists/schizos but we must force ourselves.
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Anonymous
6/22/2025, 1:59:46 AM No.33256355
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Anonymous
6/22/2025, 2:10:18 AM No.33256398
>>33256355
Even someone who knows you would struggle to give a real prescription that will fix your personality or life. This is the human condition, not necessarily an indication that your problem isn't going to resolve. I was watching this show Stavvy's World where he makes his guests (successful comedians) give normal people advice. If Stavvy and his guests don't shit the bed or tell the caller to fuck off then they actually have decent advice for loserish guys. To be a comedian is to be kinda mentally disturbed, but they're also strong workers for being able to subjective themselves to being on stage, and these are comedians who are successful. A more conventional way to ask for advice would be to go to a therapist or some spiritual counselor or something like that, but keep in mind that to really click with someone and get quality advice from them the stars need to align. Some people you talk to are going to just give you advice that is a small piece of the puzzle, others will dismiss you, and many will project their shit onto you. On 4chan we have no choice but to project our shit onto you because we know nothing about you and are interacting via these dull little messages. You also need to strengthen your own ability to solve your own problems. I mean, you can hire someone to wipe your ass if you're disabled but you can't hire someone to fix every existential pain you have. All that said, my first advice is to get a real diagnosis of your problem instead of, "Duuuh I dunno."
Even someone who knows you would struggle to give a real prescription that will fix your personality or life. This is the human condition, not necessarily an indication that your problem isn't going to resolve. I was watching this show Stavvy's World where he makes his guests (successful comedians) give normal people advice. If Stavvy and his guests don't shit the bed or tell the caller to fuck off then they actually have decent advice for loserish guys. To be a comedian is to be kinda mentally disturbed, but they're also strong workers for being able to subjective themselves to being on stage, and these are comedians who are successful. A more conventional way to ask for advice would be to go to a therapist or some spiritual counselor or something like that, but keep in mind that to really click with someone and get quality advice from them the stars need to align. Some people you talk to are going to just give you advice that is a small piece of the puzzle, others will dismiss you, and many will project their shit onto you. On 4chan we have no choice but to project our shit onto you because we know nothing about you and are interacting via these dull little messages. You also need to strengthen your own ability to solve your own problems. I mean, you can hire someone to wipe your ass if you're disabled but you can't hire someone to fix every existential pain you have. All that said, my first advice is to get a real diagnosis of your problem instead of, "Duuuh I dunno."
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Anonymous
6/22/2025, 2:16:00 AM No.33256416
>>33256398
Well thanks anyway for helping in someway. I'll look for more answers
Well thanks anyway for helping in someway. I'll look for more answers
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Anonymous
6/22/2025, 2:18:24 AM No.33256423
>>33256416
I've been depressed and sorta retarded for much of my life. I'm waiting on full psych eval results. I don't think it's fully concrete like when you get a blood test or something of that nature but I'm hoping it helps me. You seem a bit confused about yourself so maybe you could get one of those? I don't know.
I've been depressed and sorta retarded for much of my life. I'm waiting on full psych eval results. I don't think it's fully concrete like when you get a blood test or something of that nature but I'm hoping it helps me. You seem a bit confused about yourself so maybe you could get one of those? I don't know.