>2023
>22 y/o, junkie loser
>GF tells me she's pregnant
>something snaps inside of me
>"I'll be the dad I never had" (Never met my dad and my mom remade a new life/family and had new kids with a different man, I was raised by my grandparents)
>cold turkey, get clean, get a job, become a responsible adult
>raise daughter
>2 years later, discussion with girlfriend
>"she isn't even yours"
>take DNA test, she is not mine

I can’t even use this pain as an excuse to fall apart and relapse. Somewhere along the line, I started thinking beyond myself.

My grandparents are old. Frail. They need me. And I want to give them something decent before they go, some dignity in their final years. Because I love them. Because they’re the only ones who never gave up on me.

I'm not "him" anymore
but I'm not "me" either I feel like I was robbed of being a careless piece of shit. I miss not having a heart and a conscience. But i will never be him again. NEVER.

what advice do you need

>>33256282
Kek

>>33256211 (OP)
You are a good man and a good father. No one can take that away from you. Don't let anyone take you away from the child who loves you

>>33256211 (OP)
Are you trying to say that it hurts?
Cause it should hurt, but I am glad you are strong enough to cope with it like an adult.
You are good man.

>>33256211 (OP)
So you're just going to take it, clean after the guy who's actually the father and show your girlfriend that there are no consequences?

>>33256211 (OP)
Proud of you, Anon.

>>33258326
Bud what good is going to war over some shit you can walk away from?
Sunk cost is a bitch, just walk away and do something you enjoy.
>>33256211 (OP)
Hey OP you might find some value in this poem.
https://youtu.be/T2LUbk_7uKg?feature=shared

>>33256211 (OP)
This is the most Christian thread on 4chan. Cuckoldry saves!

>>33258390
And what good does it do walking away when you're taken advantage of? You'll always wonder why didn't you defend yourself, why does that people get to live happily after that. You can't find peace taking a blow and then turning around.

It's not about sunk cost, it's about shitty people facing consequences for their actions.

>>33256211 (OP)
>But i will never be him again. NEVER.
Well, good. So what's the problem, exactly?