Took her virginity.
Then I broke up with her because she claimed she cheated on me.
But later said "I wanted you to think you could lose to me". She begged, but she had done this many times.
She said she wanted to have kids with me and loved me. And was upset I wasn't ready for kids.
She got with a rebound.
She was still emotionally attached to me while she was with him.
She even talked of getting back with me and it was clear she was still furious I broke up with her.
When her rebound fell apart, she contacted me. But she was also very rude and saying mean things.
But before I could say anything she blocked me on Whatsapp.
At this same time it seemed like she deleted half her friends list and all her pictures.
Over the next few months she deleted more friends. But during this time period she ignored my inquiries on Facebook.
So I contacted her ex rebound and inquired about their relationship, I sent him screenshots of her talking of getting back with me and her claiming she cheated on me.
I wanted him to clarify if he was this individual and if she had been playing both of us.
Rather, she instead deleted him, her best friends and completely went into hiding.
When I tried reaching out to her again a few months after that, she told me to never ever contact her again.

She's still completely cut off from nearly everyone. What am I supposed to do?
I asked a friend for advice and he said the one thing you can't do is fix another human being.

Obviously whether she cheated or not. What she did was manipulative and I told her that when we broke up. At this point since I never got a response, I'll never know if she did.
Thinking back now she always had a really hard time taking accountability for anything and always liked to change the subject. My recent actions of getting to the bottom of it probably caused her unbearable shame and paranoia.

I would have left it be if she didn't gaslight me and blame me and berate me. When we broke up I even told her. You can tell your friends that I was the toxic one because there's no way you're gonna tell them the truth of why we actually broke up.

But even then I only told her rebound, who I suspect was the one she cheated on me with.

But sometimes I feel bad for her and assume. What if she made it all up, what if she really never cheated on me with this guy?
It still doesn't accuse her of refusing to take accountability and her manipulations and berating me.

Even when I was dating her she ghosted me for 1 month (the period in which she claimed she cheated) because she was mad at me. So I don't know if I could ever have a healthy relationship with her.

Am I trauma bonded? Have you guys had experience with a ex girlfriend like this?

>>33256309 (OP)
>What am I supposed to do?

Nothing, because her destroying her relationships is not your problem.
If I was to take a blind guess, she has some real problems letting people get close to her and started kicking the self sabotage into overdrive after letting you break thourgh her barrier.
But thats just idle speculation, the important part is that you aren't repsonsible; it has nothing to do with you; and you can't do anything about it anyways. Move on.

>>33256309 (OP)
You can't save everyone my guy. She's got her own problems she needs to work on, clearly.

>>33256309 (OP)
>pumped and dumped a virgin
yeah because youre such a victim

>>33256775
>>33256656
>>33256645
When I first started dating her she asked me to marry her after a week of dating. And she broke up with me when I refused. But 2 days later she wanted to get back together. But this cycle repeated with her breaking up with me, till I stopped replying. She would have breakdowns.
She kept insisting she might be pregnant cause of a late period. When I contacted her a few months later she blamed me for not being there for her when she had a mental health crisis and it wasn't the same since.
She said I wasn't willing to be there for her at her worst. But her worst was pressuring me to do something I didn't want and not taking no for an answer.

My last interaction with her I told her I'd marry her. And she said "I'm pregnant" and told me to stop talking to her.
Then she told me to never ever reach out again.

But when I told her she said that to me when she'd make her demands for marriage. She said she'd get the cops involved if I contacted her again. So, I'm indefinitely stopping

But something tells me there is something off. She cut off everybody from her life.

All I know is she was diagnosed with depression and took meds.

>>33256309 (OP)
Classic BPD chick (a completely destructive mental illness).
You’re an absolute fool if you spend even one more minute thinking about her.

>>33256309 (OP)
>Thinking back now she always had a really hard time taking accountability for anything and always liked to change the subject
You don't say! picrel
Anyway, she's dead to you. Move on

>>33256775
Did you miss the part where she said she cheated on him before he dumped her? Don't be a cuck and don't promote cucked behavior

>>33257506
*Where he said

>>33256309 (OP)
She sounds deranged. Move on and be thankful she isn't in your life any more.

>>33256309 (OP)
>Then I broke up with her because she claimed she cheated on me.
>But later said "I wanted you to think you could lose to me". She begged, but she had done this many times.
Stopped reading there, good riddance.

>>33257727
I still love her

>>33256309 (OP)
Your ex is a liar, she probably wasn't even a virgin.