Thread 33256346 - /adv/ [Archived: 1448 hours ago]

Anonymous
6/22/2025, 1:57:04 AM No.33256346
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>have 3 degrees
>make 80k a year at 26
>will have a salary of 100k in 5 years
>will have a salary of 120k in 10 years
Is this enough for a black guy to get an Asian wife with? Or do I need even more money to overcome my racial debuff?
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Anonymous
6/22/2025, 2:00:53 AM No.33256359
>>33256346 (OP)
6-figure diversity hire
Depends on the dating market in DC.
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Anonymous
6/22/2025, 2:03:50 AM No.33256374
>>33256359
I don't live in the US, and in my country they don't have affirmative action for blacks (at least not when I applied to university)
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Anonymous
6/22/2025, 3:44:25 AM No.33256734
>>33256374
what cunt u in (don't say "ur mum's")
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Anonymous
6/22/2025, 3:45:57 AM No.33256739
>>33256734
Canada
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Anonymous
6/22/2025, 3:57:51 AM No.33256777
>>33256346 (OP)
>Or do I need even more money to overcome my racial debuff?

I'd actually argue for less money. Because all you're getting is well thought out divorce plan taht gets executed to perfection the moment she has attained her citizenship.
Underestimating asian chicks is a real killer for Betas. Gettign richer will jsut make you a bigger mark.
Theres some asians with a BBC fetish,your best bet is probably an americanized one who really wants to stick it to daddy.Its still transactional shit, but maybe it blossoms into actual love.
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Anonymous
6/22/2025, 3:57:52 AM No.33256778
>>33256739
i'm baffled that your parents were kind enough to let you get 3 degrees. you most certainly weren't raised by a single mother. my mom saddled me with her debt, and i only just now paid it off at 27. now i can hopefully go to community college for an associates.

i wish i was adopted.
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Anonymous
6/22/2025, 4:09:10 AM No.33256806
>>33256777
>Theres some asians with a BBC fetish,your best bet is probably an americanized one who really wants to stick it to daddy.Its still transactional shit, but maybe it blossoms into actual love.
I've yet to meet an Asian girl who has a preference for blacks. Also, I don't have a BBC- It's just above average

>>33256778
My dad is a good man.
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Anonymous
6/22/2025, 4:17:39 AM No.33256825
>>33256806
>I've yet to meet an Asian girl who has a preference for blacks

Why Asians in the first place? You picked like the only ethnicity that really unanimously and almost without exception hates black people.
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Anonymous
6/22/2025, 4:26:48 AM No.33256856
>>33256825
I have autism and I am really not attracted to Caucasian or Subsaharan features in general. I think it mostly comes down to the fact that I grew up in a neighborhood that had a lot of Chinese people in it. Consequently, I spent my formative years in a school and a friend group that was mostly asian.

I don't really find myself caring enough to like or pursue a white or black girl. I'm pretty specific about what I like.
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s
6/22/2025, 4:31:18 AM No.33256878
>>33256346 (OP)
I think around $100k will definitely be enough
Anonymous
6/22/2025, 5:15:45 AM No.33257046
>>33256856
>I have autism

Thats even more of a reason to refrain form taking the golddigger route. A professional Thai, Viet or Flip will leave you a smoldering financial and emotional ruin.
Any normal asian woman will have her own income or wealthy family and not give a fuck about your cash besides you showing that you are reasonably successful. But a pure golddigger, thats gonna kill you man.

>I'm pretty specific about what I like.
If thats your thing,man but you are really turning up the difficulty to nightmare mode I think.

>I spent my formative years in a school and a friend group that was mostly asian.
Can't you ask them maybe about how to find asian chicks that may beinto black dudes or are at least open to it? I know a smoking hot blasian whose mom is nothing to sneeze at, so its definitely possible and not with uggos either. But then again her dad is also the outgoing , flirty, charismatic and hyperextroverted type of clichee black dude , which may be different in your case.
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Anonymous
6/22/2025, 5:33:37 AM No.33257119
>>33257046
>Can't you ask them maybe about how to find asian chicks that may be into black dudes or are at least open to it?
They don't really know. They all just said it's going to be an uphill battle but they think that eventually a hypothetical gf or wife's parents will come around after I tie the knot.

I also recently asked a Chinese girl that I'm friends with if she's ever met an Asian girl who likes black guys and she said she hasn't, but that it's also not something she would ask

>which may be different in your case.
My friends all say that I have the hobbies, interests, and personality of a stereotypical nerdy white guy

The issue is I just have no motivation to date anyone else. I go out, I see white women and I feel absolutely nothing.

Also, my goal wasn't to bring someone from overseas. Obviously they'd just leave me after they get their citizenship
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Anonymous
6/22/2025, 5:41:14 AM No.33257141
>>33256346 (OP)
>Or do I need even more money to overcome my racial debuff?

No amount of money will help you overcome this debuff. If you can't convince an an asian girl to be with you without flashing your riches, you are ngmi. You'll just end up marrying a gold-digging whore.

Find an asian girl who wants to be around you regardless of your income. Hopefully one with successful parents, so you won't have to worry about any ulterior motives regarding your finances.
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Anonymous
6/22/2025, 5:59:35 AM No.33257213
>>33257141
>Find an asian girl who wants to be around you regardless of your income.
I've done this before and they will only ever want to be friends because:
>a) I'm not their type
>b) there's too much stigma attached or >c) all of the above
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Anonymous
6/22/2025, 6:26:50 AM No.33257309
>>33257213
>I've done this before and they will only ever want to be friends because:
>>a) I'm not their type
>>b) there's too much stigma attached or >c) all of the above

In that case, why not just bite the bullet and date a white woman instead? I've seen a fair amount of bmwf relationships, yet i can't think of a single asian woman who's dating a black guy.
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Anonymous
6/22/2025, 6:29:50 AM No.33257320
>>33257309
Because I really don't like white women
>>33256856
>>33257119
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Anonymous
6/22/2025, 6:50:01 AM No.33257413
>>33257320
>Because I really don't like white women

Well tough-tits then. Either take a trip to your local amp (not for marriage, obviously) or keep trying your luck with the asian girls in your circle. Maybe your personality is giving them the "ick". Nerdy blacks aren't seen as a sexy archetype
Anonymous
6/22/2025, 1:54:09 PM No.33258272
>>33256346 (OP)
Just import one from the Philippines. You are not likely to get a Chinese, Japanese or Korean girl but stranger things have happened on this Earth.
Anonymous
6/22/2025, 2:22:05 PM No.33258339
just go for the american born ones or tatted sluts, they will appreciate the big dick and your lack of impulse control
Anonymous
6/22/2025, 9:32:30 PM No.33259674
>>33256346 (OP)
You have a low sense of self worth and you seek to redeem yourself from your shame (which apparently is being black in an anti black community) by obtaining a woman who matches the biased beauty standard affirmed by your peers.

Being demotivated, you've chosen a circular regression into self doubt. You absolutely require an asian partner but, because of your race, you feel inadequate. You say that with enough income you could compensate for this, but seem to think an indefinite amount is needed. Of course that's unrealistic so your problem has no solution. It's an excuse for inaction.
>5 years
>10 years
>eternity later I'll have enough money for azn gf
>but i am le niger boo hoo
Maybe deprogram the racist thinking? Have a little self respect and don't idolize people who perceive you as a lowly other? Hmmmm
Anonymous
6/23/2025, 6:33:02 AM No.33261853
>>33256346 (OP)
there are asian girls who like black guys, 120k will be fine
Anonymous
6/23/2025, 9:26:15 AM No.33262300
>>33256346 (OP)
Why did you need 3 degrees to get to six-figures? What job are you doing?

Also I know plenty of asian girls and none are into black guys. Their parents and wider community would never approve of it.
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Anonymous
6/23/2025, 9:37:31 AM No.33262325
>>33262300
This. Why you chose the most racist race I have no idea, Asian parents will be cruelly against marriage even between different types of East Asians. Asian women will fuck you but never marry you unless she's after your money.