>try to be a good person
>get repeatedly abused and only feel powerless in the end
>people wonder why you’re so jaded now
I don’t get it, what’s the point? Why is human nature like this?

>>33256558 (OP)
A good person is good to themselves and others. But don't think of things in such an adversarial good/bad way. Just protect yourself, and also be open too good people. Don't generalize everyone, or at least only do it as a joke.

a good person would be primarily effective, i think

what were you trying to do? i don't understand how a good person could be powerless, or how a powerless person could be good

are you trying to be a good person according to your own standards or according to the standards of those around you? usually the former tends to result in a better experience

>>33256558 (OP)
Coexistence isn’t about pleasing the world. It’s about surviving it without letting anyone steal your humanity. Even if your humanity looks fierce, bruised, guarded, or quiet.
You’re allowed to be jaded. You’re allowed to not be okay.
But you’re also allowed to build a way of living that honors who you’ve become and still leaves the door cracked open for something better.

>>33256608
Is this ChatGPT

>>33256558 (OP)
>>try to be a good person
Like being a cringe who has to make a ceremony of hold doors open and so on? Just don't do the autistic, Mr. Bean thing and coming off as a clown.

>>33256558 (OP)
Boundaries are included in being a good person. You have to recognize when people are trying to take advantage of your kindness and put them in their place immediately and definitively.

>>33256558 (OP)
you are mixing being a bitch that can't say no and is too naive with being a good person
a lot of people can agree I'm a good person, I've lent money to friends in need, I've helped others when they were overwhelmed, my sister loves me because I take good care of her kids but if I'm too busy I just tell people I can't, if the money is too much or is asked by someone I don't trust will be able to pay it to me I tell him I won't go through with it, if I see someone is taking advantage of the help I'm giving him I just stop giving help.
it's not hard. a couple of assholes will hate you but your reputation as a good person will remain.

>>33256558 (OP)
By your logic, every good person is just a person who hasn't experienced abuse or powerlessness
Revisit your way of thinking and come post again once you're older than 14