I feel as though my girlfriend is treating a co-worker / friend as a work husband in that they are too close for my own comfort. This isn't a sexual or romantic thing in the least, because he is gay and married, while I'm straight and my girl is bisexual. My issues stem from her and I being partners in all regards, with the foundation of it being as best friends and creative partners before we realized how we felt and got involved sexually. There has been apathy for our project and more excitement and passion for the creative endeavor she is working towards launching with her coworker soon. She's not willing to see things from my perspective, justifying all of it whilst being highly defensive.

This bothers me quite a bit, and I have tried to get across to her about it. Things are going good in other sectors and facets, but this irks me badly.

Women are highly attracted to gay men and they want what they can't have.

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I don't think it's attraction like that, as we have a fulfilling love and sex life. It's that I'm invested in all capacities with her, including creatively, business-wise, as friends and everything else. So having someone impede on anything in a way that I feel is invasive to us; our relationship bugs me a lot.

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