So you are telling me that I will never find a man that will genuinely see me as a 10/10 ? I literally loved worshiped and saw my ex some qt nerdy soft looking guy (my type like the op pic) as a 10/10 and he was like you aint a 10/10. Like why can't I get the love I give back?


I am literally thin,not deformed(although open to plastic surgery if anyone thinks I am) and put effort in my appearance . Other women told me men can't give that level of love so what even is the point of dating men if they will never love you the way you love them?

This is a fucking humiliation ritual

If you think it is richitg und wichtig then I am not dating men anymore and if you think it is wrong then please tell me Ways to change myself so I can be loved

Like ew imagine sleeping next to a moid who can and might kill you and you don't even love each other

Stop spamming this forced meme. Ywmbaw

>>33257088
Stfu moid

>>33256824 (OP)
my 10/10 was not the stereotypical stacy when I was younger, it was more like an alt emo chick with a small mouth and intense eyes
nowadays my concept of 10/10 is so broad I can see 50 girls of different ethnicities and features and call all of them 10/10 if they are pretty by their own standards
anyways a 10/10 is a very superficial idea honey, yes I loved intensely my last ex (I still miss her and wish we didn't break up) but I know she was a 7,5 on a good day and mostly a 7/10 on the regular.
10/10 is mostly about looks and other stuff you can see from the outside otherwise we would have to meet and befriend every person we consider attractive to know if they are a 10/10 if we used any other metric.

>>33257194
Why are you calling her a 7/10 when you say that you see a lot of what you find 10/10

>>33257206
beacuse physically she was pretty but not stunning, I told you the score is mostly for superficial stuff.

>>33257259
Yeah that is my issue, since I find alot of men 10/10 I want the same back in a relationship or else its just a humiliation ritual like ew

>>33257267
physical appearance is not all and you can't ask people to schew the perceptions they've had since early childhood just for you
I can lie to a girl and tell her she's a 10/10 all she wants but if she isn't, she isn't
simple as.

>>33257088
Fippy

>>33257274
How about both this sounds so shallow like oh she is good enough to fuck and submissive enough not to make a fuss ew pathetic . No amount of social pressure can tell me that my need for this is too much cause I can give that and I have gave that to others before

Ywnbw

>>33257356
Kys

>>33257347
look I can buy a car, repair it, love it and maintain it, cry when I when I sell it and overall make it a piece of my life
does that mean I have to pretend it's a 10 million dollar sports car?
not at all
that's the part you're not getting
a 10/10 is a physical metric, if we declare a 10/10 any girl we love intensely that metric makes no sense anymore and stops being useful at all.
and guess what even if that happens another metric will come and take it's place because as much as we like to deny it reality is there, that 10 million dollar car will not dissapear or start being ugly engineering just because I love my hatchback to pieces.

>>33257372
Still fucked, I seeen as perfect for who they are all the time and thing models like opry etc as ugly this is celeb worship,selfish and sheeple esc

>>33257514
are you having an episode, you're starting to ramble a bit.

>>33257547
I still by my point that is I can love like that my partner should too

>>33256824 (OP)
lol women aren’t capable of love either. I’ve given that kind of love multiple times only to either be ditched, or told “you’re too good for me.”

With how shitty people are in general, they deserve to destroy each other.

>>33257568
Idc I am a woman and gave it

>>33257569
Sure and Santa is real. You’ll find some guy I’m sure that’ll love you just as much and I’m sure you’ll sabotage it somehow so everyone can continue to be shitty to each other forever. Fuck this species.

>>33257597
Why are you gaslighting me claiming what I want doesn't exist when I know it does since I gave it

>>33257625
He's probably bitter about something not working out, or some woman doing x thing to him. Just let him seethe.

>>33257625
You know how some days you wake up feeling extra tired and some days you wake up feeling super energized? “Love” seems to be just as ephemeral.

If there’s anything I’ve learned dealing with “love” is it’s just a feeling that changes at the drop of a hat. That’s why I sincerely know if you encounter a man who loves you, and those feelings will change like the way the wind changes.

That’s why I genuinely don’t believe you and I hope you get hurt badly before you hurt someone else. If you’re going to hurt someone, hurt someone who’s a piece of shit at least, but you won’t because of the risk of physical violence from those types of dregs.

>>33257629
Personal experiences, seeing it among guys I know, then you’ll hear “the go after different women hurr durr” even though I’ve seen it from women from different upbringings and socioeconomic statuses.

All the damn same. You’ll self sabotage it once you find it. I can promise you that and I feel sorry for the poor sap you’ll trick.

>>33257645
So what happened in your case?

>>33257637
What are you talking about why are you such a cunt I did love him and still do

>>33256824 (OP)
>So you are telling me that I will never find a man that will genuinely see me as a 10/10 ?
No. But you shouldn't care. Appearance only matters to a point
>Other women told me men can't give that level of love so what even is the point of dating men if they will never love you the way you love them?
Those other women are jaded and want to drag you down with them. (Most) men are very much intensely capable of loving.

>I am literally thin not deformed(although open to plastic surgery if anyone thinks I am) and put effort in my appearance .
You don't love a person for their appearance, love is something else, it creeps on you day after day of spending time with the right person.
>Like why can't I get the love I give back?
>please tell me Ways to change myself so I can be loved
It's ok to want love, but it isn't a slot machine. You don't need to change yourself to find love, it isn't an abstract prize you earn after doing stuff. A man cannot give you the love you need to navigate through life, only you can give yourself that. I would start from there.

>>33256824 (OP)
>If you think it is richitg und wichtig then I am not dating men anymore
Good riddance. You clearly have BPD.

>>33257679
I mean I do care since I give tha

>>33257679
>A man cannot give you the love you need to navigate through life, only you can give yourself that. I would start from there.
What do you mean by that?
I just enjoy having a man to hold and love on

>>33257679
Also how are they jaded when most men itt say they also don't love like that

>>33256824 (OP)
autistic obsession about dumb details. Classic /adv/ thread.

>>33257913
>most men itt say they also don't love like that
You are on 4Chan.
>What do you mean by that?
You are not incomplete without a man.

>>33256824 (OP)
>if they will never love you the way you love them?
In my experience and from everything I've seen and heard woman are more like that

>>33256824 (OP)
No man like that will ever love you, you fucking ugly bitch.

>b-b-but I'm mid I'm not ugly
Mid is the new ugly you fucking worthless bitch

>>33258255
You fat

>>33256824 (OP)
>I literally loved worshiped and saw my ex some qt nerdy soft looking guy (my type like the op pic) as a 10/10
the last thing a man wants to hear is you talking about your ex. Are you over him?

>>33256824 (OP)
stop reposting this, schizo

>>33258606
I mean I miss having a bf but I can get over him once I talk to a qt new man

>>33260691
Stfu moid

>>33256824 (OP)
What he thinks of your looks isn't how much he loves you
I'm surprised you can't figure that out

>>33256824 (OP)
Moid opinion take it as you will.
I don't think that men and women are all that inherently different emotionally (and that all overt, obvious differences are a result of social conditioning and external pressures), so I do believe that men and women are capable of loving each other equally. I loved this one girl so intensely that I still, to this day, beat myself over the head with all of the "if"s where I could have somehow salvaged what we had, I was obsessed, madly in love. I know that I'm using a personal anecdote which is a fallacy, but the question is
>"will I never find a man that will genuinely see me as a 10/10?" / find men that love you the way you love them?
I as a man saw my lover as a 10/10. If I can truly love, and if I am not some special unicorn (which I am not) then logically there are other men out there capable of expressing to you, true love.
>why can't I get the love I give back
maybe your type of men are immature or inexperienced, ie they don't value what they have, or don't know how to love someone romantically yet. Maybe you've just been unlucky and there was a compatibility issue.
>please tell me Ways to change myself so I can be loved
It's always better to be loved for who you actually are, not for some mask you think looks better. You're not some dancing bird or a peacock showing off feathers.

>>33256824 (OP)
actually kill yourself there are a gorllion threads here including mine from men who would love nothing more but to love a cute woman
actually kys

>>33261553
schizo

>>33256824 (OP)
If you are self-admittedly going after retarded emo soundcloud rapper men, I have no idea why you'd be surprised that they treat you badly or don't see the value in you

>>33261664
Hey yeah that is exactly the love I give and want. You say you and other men give it but even in this thread men say they dont

>>33263701
Because a lot of people are trapped in this echo-chamber that centers its worldview around how failures aren't their fault. That isn't to say a lot of things aren't out of people's hands, but the common overarching narrative I've seen is that they believe they do not have any control over their lives, so it's easier to resent the potential of good things to maintain a semblance of dignity and control, ironically making it their choice to not have another option in the matter. It's easier to give up on the possibility that there's a potential good outcome out there instead of having to confront their worldview and take meaningful action to change their life.

tl;dr people deeply engaged in online discourse probably have warped lenses on life, touch grass.

I will respond to you but fuck I am so upset about no bf brb

>>33262059
I mean my ex seemed like a nice nerd guy at first

My ex was a fat ogre and rated me average too because he knew I was too good for him and was trying to keep me down. I fucked up by giving him too much power. You can't be too head over heels at first or he will say shit like that to you. You need a man that puts you on a pedestal. Trust me it's like night and day my bf calls me a princess kisses my hand and always makes me feel gorgeous