What to do - /adv/ (#33256831) [Archived: 1468 hours ago]

Anonymous
6/22/2025, 4:18:44 AM No.33256831
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My girlfriend thinks im cheating. She wants to look at my phone. I dont want her to look at my phone. Im not hiding anything I just want her to trust me. What to do?
Replies: >>33257172 >>33257734 >>33258108 >>33258337 >>33259311 >>33259446
Anonymous
6/22/2025, 5:45:09 AM No.33257158
First thing is to stay calm and listen to her concerns. Do not try and prove yourself right. Ask her what is going on for her to think this and approach openly and with love. After the situation is brought down to a level of regular conversation try to express how it has made you feel un-trusted. I think this will help the both of you.
Anonymous
6/22/2025, 5:49:35 AM No.33257172
>>33256831 (OP)
Tell her to show you her phone. If a woman is accusing you of cheating on her, it's a good sign that she is, in fact, cheating on you. Women often project their own behavior onto others.
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Anonymous
6/22/2025, 6:03:32 AM No.33257228
>>33257172
This is also true lol. I learned this in my last relationship
Anonymous
6/22/2025, 9:20:33 AM No.33257734
>>33256831 (OP)
>What to do?
Let her look at your phone. If she said to you "I swear I'm not cheating on you, but you can't look at my phone" what would you think?
Anonymous
6/22/2025, 12:53:14 PM No.33258108
>>33256831 (OP)
Let her look at your phone while mocking her for being retarded.
Then know that this was probably an act of projection and she cheated on you.
Sadly many such cases...
Anonymous
6/22/2025, 1:03:16 PM No.33258132
Alternate problem for me. I am pretty sure my wife is cheating, I've seen some things in her phone and have been suspicious for a while now. How can I track her car without her knowing I'm doing so?
Anonymous
6/22/2025, 2:02:36 PM No.33258289
Do u guys really think shes cheating on me? She has been saying she's lonely lately
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Anonymous
6/22/2025, 2:18:59 PM No.33258329
>>33258289
Bottom line let her go through yours and unlock anything she wants you to unlock, which will make her trust you more. But go through hers as well and ask her to do the same for you. Solve both problems.
Anonymous
6/22/2025, 2:21:41 PM No.33258337
>>33256831 (OP)
Showing her your phone would be a logical way to prove your innocence which is useless for women. She needs an emotional reason to believe you. Perhaps she feels neglected or maybe she thinks you're not attracted to her.

or this >>33257172 i dunno lol
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Anonymous
6/22/2025, 2:23:44 PM No.33258346
>>33258289
Anon, for a woman that's a completely valid excuse to cheat on you. She probably wants to find signs of you cheating so she can validate her own behaviour.
Anonymous
6/22/2025, 2:25:13 PM No.33258350
>>33258337
me again, I just saw this: >>33258289

>She has been saying she's lonely lately
Assuming she's not cheating on you then it's likely because she thinks you don't care about her and, therefore, must have someone else that you're focused on. So long as she feels lonely or neglected, she will find any excuse to justify her feelings.
Anonymous
6/22/2025, 8:14:20 PM No.33259311
>>33256831 (OP)
Clean up your phone off any proof of cheating and then give it to her. easy.
Anonymous
6/22/2025, 8:45:24 PM No.33259446
>>33256831 (OP)
Just show her your retarded memes.