Anonymous
6/22/2025, 4:25:33 AM No.33256851
Am I a loser if I've never had a gf?
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Thread 33256851 - /adv/ [Archived: 1452 hours ago]
Anonymous
6/22/2025, 5:18:35 AM No.33257058
>>33256851 (OP)
You're a loser if you drift through life as a plankton person. Have a plan. It's up to you whether the plan includes marriage and family, which, by the way, is the purpose of sexuality, as opposed to the media-induced, judaized, negrified tardistry that we are bombarded with.
You're a loser if you drift through life as a plankton person. Have a plan. It's up to you whether the plan includes marriage and family, which, by the way, is the purpose of sexuality, as opposed to the media-induced, judaized, negrified tardistry that we are bombarded with.
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.Anonymous
6/22/2025, 5:19:02 AM No.33257060
It depends on who you ask. A loser is really a person with a shitty attitude, is destructive, and contributes nothing to the world. Takes and never gives. Basically a liability in every aspect. You aren't a loser for not having a gf if you ask me. There are a lot of losers in relationships also.
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6/22/2025, 5:22:13 AM No.33257077
>>33256851 (OP)
You didn't lose anything in that sentence. Though perhaps there are sentences you could construct accurately that depict you losing.
You didn't lose anything in that sentence. Though perhaps there are sentences you could construct accurately that depict you losing.
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Anonymous
6/22/2025, 5:49:03 AM No.33257170
>>33256851 (OP)
Yes. Despite what everyone else will cope and say, yes you are.
Were you rich and successful? Then get a gf
Were you screwed by life somehow? Doesn't matter, there are literal homeless guys with gfs.
Yes. Despite what everyone else will cope and say, yes you are.
Were you rich and successful? Then get a gf
Were you screwed by life somehow? Doesn't matter, there are literal homeless guys with gfs.
Anonymous
6/22/2025, 5:51:15 AM No.33257181
>>33257060
Well said.
Well said.
Anonymous
6/22/2025, 5:55:20 AM No.33257193
Anonymous
6/22/2025, 5:57:04 AM No.33257200
>>33256851 (OP)
it depends on your age
it depends on your age
Anonymous
6/22/2025, 5:57:35 AM No.33257202
>>33257058
>>33257060
>>33257077
What about a failure or less of a man? I guess 'less of a man' is more of the term I mean rather than 'loser'
>>33257060
>>33257077
What about a failure or less of a man? I guess 'less of a man' is more of the term I mean rather than 'loser'
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Anonymous
6/22/2025, 6:31:16 AM No.33257325
>>33257202
>less of a man
A man handles his shit and doesn't need a woman to validate him. Thinking a woman makes you a man is pussy-ass beta behavior. Stop it.
>less of a man
A man handles his shit and doesn't need a woman to validate him. Thinking a woman makes you a man is pussy-ass beta behavior. Stop it.
Anonymous
6/22/2025, 6:32:45 AM No.33257331
>>33256851 (OP)
No.
Girls are so fickle that it's sort of like not never having won 20 bucks in the lottery. Probably means you havent played a lot but also it is kind of random at times.
I have always been kind of a cool batcholer. Enough friends but don't really try with girls, my few tries have failed badly enough it's just not fun.
(Had a sort of good luck chuck situation)
No.
Girls are so fickle that it's sort of like not never having won 20 bucks in the lottery. Probably means you havent played a lot but also it is kind of random at times.
I have always been kind of a cool batcholer. Enough friends but don't really try with girls, my few tries have failed badly enough it's just not fun.
(Had a sort of good luck chuck situation)
Anonymous
6/22/2025, 7:46:35 PM No.33259197
>>33257202
Your insistence in confirming that you are indeed a "loser" shows you have an inclination to indulge in self-pity. You already got really great answers to your question within a few replies, but, if I had to guess, you internally refuse to acknowledge the fact that your self worth as man isn't really tied to how much pussy you can get. Ironically enough, being a paranoid trainwreck will lead to inaction, stagnancy, and as time passes relentlessly through you, the odds of you becoming a genuine "loser" only get higher.
Your insistence in confirming that you are indeed a "loser" shows you have an inclination to indulge in self-pity. You already got really great answers to your question within a few replies, but, if I had to guess, you internally refuse to acknowledge the fact that your self worth as man isn't really tied to how much pussy you can get. Ironically enough, being a paranoid trainwreck will lead to inaction, stagnancy, and as time passes relentlessly through you, the odds of you becoming a genuine "loser" only get higher.
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Anonymous
6/22/2025, 8:05:57 PM No.33259282
>>33259197
You're probably right, for some reason I can't stop hating myself and pitying myself. What can I do?
You're probably right, for some reason I can't stop hating myself and pitying myself. What can I do?
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Anonymous
6/22/2025, 8:36:59 PM No.33259415
>>33259282
>>33259282
First and foremost I suggest that you gradually change the way you talk to yourself, since I can bet it influences your overall mood during your waking hours. The voice in your head, as convincing as it sounds, isn't really connected to reality 100%, so it can and should be questioned and interrogated. These kind of thoughts that seem to be carved in stone (even those who don't look necessarily harmful) must be put under scrutiny , so you can see if they hold any truth at all.
Example: "I am a loser because I don't have a girlfriend."; "BUT, from where did I learn that not having a girlfriend equals to being a loser?(External influence?)"; "What exactly [to me] defines being a loser? Is it just not having a girlfriend?"; "If not, then there may be losers somewhere with girlfriends."; "And if that's the case, then the initial premise of my belief was kind of wrong."; If what I said makes sense to you, apply as much as possible (seriously, you have to watch out for those automatic thoughts that make you miserable 24/7), if not, just ignore.
>>33259282
First and foremost I suggest that you gradually change the way you talk to yourself, since I can bet it influences your overall mood during your waking hours. The voice in your head, as convincing as it sounds, isn't really connected to reality 100%, so it can and should be questioned and interrogated. These kind of thoughts that seem to be carved in stone (even those who don't look necessarily harmful) must be put under scrutiny , so you can see if they hold any truth at all.
Example: "I am a loser because I don't have a girlfriend."; "BUT, from where did I learn that not having a girlfriend equals to being a loser?(External influence?)"; "What exactly [to me] defines being a loser? Is it just not having a girlfriend?"; "If not, then there may be losers somewhere with girlfriends."; "And if that's the case, then the initial premise of my belief was kind of wrong."; If what I said makes sense to you, apply as much as possible (seriously, you have to watch out for those automatic thoughts that make you miserable 24/7), if not, just ignore.
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Anonymous
6/22/2025, 8:45:47 PM No.33259448
>>33259415
That makes sense. I think what makes that hard is I don't give credence to my own opinion. I'm just one person and I can be wrong. If most people would consider me a loser and I'm an outlier then it must be true.
That makes sense. I think what makes that hard is I don't give credence to my own opinion. I'm just one person and I can be wrong. If most people would consider me a loser and I'm an outlier then it must be true.
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Anonymous
6/22/2025, 9:29:38 PM No.33259660
>>33259448
Most people are idiots. Literal dividing bacteria. Their perspective of you shouldn't matter much since they base theirs on a societal view that relationships are le all-important. These reddit-tier retards spam their shitposted children allover the planet while believing they've accomplished something. No, all they wanted was sexual pleasure/release/gratification. Everything past that is an afterthought. Don't fall for their so-called norms, and completely analyze every convention so you can decide on your own if any of them fucking matter. Tom, Dick, and Harry up the street all ejaculated inside vagina(s), but you might be too smart to just jump right in like them. In fact, don't. Don't be another biological shitposter; a status quo average dumbass. Stop, think, act. It's not don't stop or think, just act. If you fully subscribe to the notion of being a loser because bawwww no gf, then you are one. If you see all that as bullshit (like you ought to) while having self-respect, then you are right. Pick the better option of the two.
Most people are idiots. Literal dividing bacteria. Their perspective of you shouldn't matter much since they base theirs on a societal view that relationships are le all-important. These reddit-tier retards spam their shitposted children allover the planet while believing they've accomplished something. No, all they wanted was sexual pleasure/release/gratification. Everything past that is an afterthought. Don't fall for their so-called norms, and completely analyze every convention so you can decide on your own if any of them fucking matter. Tom, Dick, and Harry up the street all ejaculated inside vagina(s), but you might be too smart to just jump right in like them. In fact, don't. Don't be another biological shitposter; a status quo average dumbass. Stop, think, act. It's not don't stop or think, just act. If you fully subscribe to the notion of being a loser because bawwww no gf, then you are one. If you see all that as bullshit (like you ought to) while having self-respect, then you are right. Pick the better option of the two.
Anonymous
6/23/2025, 5:43:05 AM No.33261680