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>>33257935it could swing both ways. on one hand, you could really switch up your life and find something lovely and fulfilling, but it would be a dangerous move, and who knows if it would work out. if you're "pretty comfortable", i would stay where you are, and maybe try to get a hobby. with respect to hobbies, i'd try the 2-path method. i.e., focus half your time/energy on one hobby and the other half on exploring other hobbies. (that way, you get to build up a skill and learn what it means to dig deep into something, but you also get to explore the world) i would read excerpt 42 in nietzsche's gay science for further thought into this question, as he takes the former path (getting a passionate job).
>>33258479i assume you meant "horniness", and i'm afraid i don't know. i'm told men like big boobs, but i've also read that they like small. very different from women, who only seem to like big dicks. it can be easy to understand why this is the way it is.
>>332591201. not necessarily. of course i like attractive men, but if by "chad" you mean "conventionally attractive, frat bro" sort of type, it's not the only thing i consider.
2. i like men who are able to have intelligent. there are other things (loyalty, kindness, taste, humor, etc.), but everything else is secondary.
3. for a lot of women? yes and no. yes, insofar as women (without being too graphic) want more sexual pleasure out of a penis, but no because a) the "technique" is a very important factor as well and b) you can't see someone's penis until they pull down their pants, and by that point, it's kind of hard to back out unless they have some obvious disease on their genitals. it's unchangeable, i wouldn't worry about it too much.