I just had a night out with my chad friend. We went out with some people he knows. He has an attractive friend that he was kinda trying to set me up with but I was basically invisible to her and she was hanging off him all night. Whenever we go out he usually gets a lot of attention and interest from girls despite already having an attractive gf. Every time I go out with him I come home depressed from how much of a blackpill it is. I see how he is treated by women and realise that will never be me. Is there a way to cope with this feel?

Is it worth looksmaxxing or careermaxxing to try and overcome it or is better just to bitterly accept it and hope you can settle down someday with a somewhat normal grill and live with the resent you never got to fully experience your youth.

>>33257775 (OP)
>Be me
>Go out with Chad friend
> 9/10 blonde comes up to him
>They talk for 2 minutes
>They start French kissing for 10 minutes
>I'll excuse myself to the bar eventually
>When I come back I ask him if he knows her from somewhere
>No

It's grim ngl

>>33257775 (OP)
>>33257789
If this blackpills you, you're weak-minded

>>33257789
Amen anon, having an attractive friend is one of the most brutal blackpills there is I dont wish it on anyone

>Be me
>Ask Chad friend what he did last weekend
>He tells me about his game of "fuck the flag"
>He sets up dates and fucks girls where hair color=color on our nations flag
>Bonus points if he fucks them in the order they are on the flag
>Somehow this is supposed not to blackpill you according to normies

>>33257806

I love my Chad friend dearly, been close friends since we were little kids, he ended up blooming as we got older though. But when I try to tell him that me and him are in a different reality when it comes to stuff like this he doesn't believe me. Women are like a game to him, they orbit and hang off every word he says, meanwhile I can't remember the last interaction I've had with a girl that was non transactional or for work purposes

man life as an ugly guy must suck royally, while I'm not chad I can have my fun and these stories sound fun and something I could do with ugly chicks if I wanted to
hell I remember once I went to a place where everyone was under 6/10 and girls grinding their crotches against me in the dance floor lol
I can't conceive a life where I'm not attractive at least to someone.

>>33257792
this. weak mindset loses you pussy. strengthen yourself!

>>33257827
I'm not even sure if it's about being ugly desu, I think the worst thing you can be these days is an average/slightly below average guy. Men are inherently horny so they'll fuck anything that's above or below their standards so majority of average and above women are with Chads. Ugly tier guys and women know that they are ugly and mostly settle down with each other. Being an average guy is like being stuck in no mans land.

very organic thread and replies

>>33257775 (OP)
>What!? Genetic diversity in nature exists that makes certain people more desirable??
Get over it. Live a life you where on your death bed you don't look back with regrets.

>>33257792
>If this blackpills you, you're weak-minded
FUCK! GIRLS LIKE TO FUCK HOT GUYS!

why was this secret kept from us! why did every teacher and authority figure have to lie to us and say all men got the exactly equal same chance!

>>33257775 (OP)
I won't read bitter that OP can't "keep up with the Joneses" in attracting vapid women threads. Go out by yourself, learn to start conversations.

>>33258106
I picture every /r9k/ poster like this

>>33257843
no the worst thing you can be these days is average AND conservative. you dont even get a social outlet online to rant or connect anymore. the average normie still wants what the chad has just can't get it yet, but he can work up to it. he can get the tattoos, money, go to college (that requires having gotten the shot) use social media do all the things to fit in eventually and play his casual sex games. the average conservative sees it all as demonic and just wants to find his people. but day by day it is clearer there are less and less.
>please wait 120 seconds before making a post on the once free 4chan

>>33257775 (OP)
I see layers in this. First there's your self image as someone who is less-than-chad tier, even going so far as to say invisible. Then there's the relationship with your friend.

1. Dismiss entirely anyone who treats you as "invisible". Superficial people are everywhere. They're disposable. Billions of humans on the planet, each one with an opinion. Arrogant women are of least concern. Just be comfortable in your own skin and you've won that battle.
2. In general, it is a bad sign in relationships of all kinds when something that makes one party happy makes the other party unhappy. It's not sustainable. If these outings with your friend end with feelings of depression then you should stop having outings with that friend. What's the purpose if it makes you unhappy? To please chad? Chad's friends? Arrogant women? Buddy, you live to pursue your own happiness. Theirs is not your problem. What kind of friend would put you in that position willingly? Maybe chad takes your presence for granted. I say fuck em. Sounds like he doesn't have a problem making friends. Why do you need to be there?
>b-but he's setting me up with hot chicks!
No sweaty he's setting himself up to look good. Arrogant women love that - stepping over what they see as an inferior man to get to their top choice. The two of them are getting off on this. What are you getting?

>>33257806
signore...

>>33257775 (OP)
The only black pill is that people with worse social skills and connections have it worse