How hard is dating as a man of size? I’m 310lbs and 5’9, but I make ok money and have all my hair
Could I get a college aged girl with these stats? I’m out almost every weekend

>>33257984 (OP)
Would you date an equally obese women?

>>33257986
yes but only as the last, final resort

>>33257984 (OP)
your age? It's about personality, just look at Boogie2988. Fat men can get away with being fat better than fat women. Just not if you are insecure about it.

>>33257984 (OP)
Clearly looks are not going to be your selling point. That leaves personality (Are you a fun guy?) and power (Are you going someplace in life?)

>>33257984 (OP)
310 is visceral belly fat that will always be extremely hard, any age, any gender

you just need to breach like under 275 and you will be able to consistently find someone. you could do that by Halloween

>>33257984 (OP)
>5'9
>310lbs
How is that even possible? You weigh more than Tyson Fury the 6'9 former heavyweight champion. What the fuck are you eating man

>>33257984 (OP)
You might have to settle for an equally overweight girl. Some girls like fat guys but it's a rarity.

>>33257993
Women think of you in the same way.

>>33257984 (OP)
>I’m out almost every weekend
Where do you go? McDonalds?

>>33258000
Boogie paid for every single girlfriend he had except the current one. To be fair, he has a horrible personality too.

More to OP's point, it really depends on what you're going for. If you're looking for one-night stands with 5/10s and up, hit the gym buddy. If you want to date or marry, work on your personality.

This isn't the 90s anymore this is the worst possible dating market for men and it's only going to get even worse. I dated some skinny, pretty girls even as a fat guy but the experiences left me embittered and going back out on the dating market was the nail in the coffin, so I looksmaxxed and went for sex only. Women don't NEED men these days, so we as men shouldn't NEED women either.

>>33259136
>so we as men shouldn't NEED women either.
Sad truth is you shouldn't but you do.

>>33259146
Only for sex, the same way women only need us for sex. A family would be nice but no woman in 2025 should be anywhere near children, much less be a mother.

>>33259161
And cooking, and cleaning, etc. The vast majority of you guys don't do that well, if at all.

>>33259177
What's life like in the 50's?

>>33259184
It's pretty great. My husband only beats me when he drinks too much.

>>33257984 (OP)
Nearly impossible. I’ll tell you the truth. Women are nearly as shallow as men are when it comes to looks. Whatever energy you are spending on trying to meet girls would be better spent on losing weight. You can ignore that advice and keep trying but in all likelihood you are going to spend hours and hours and hours chasing girls just to maybe bag a 5 one time. Maybe. Your health sucks, you’re not taking care of yourself girls should not be your priority right now. You will just suffer if you make them your priority because the truth is it is harder to get a girl at 5’9” 310 lbs than it is to lose 100-150 lbs. If you don’t believe that you are underestimating what you are up against. Sort out your life, take your problems head on. Don’t run to the false hope that you will find some woman who doesn’t care.

>>33259177
>cleaning
Just use lysol, cleaning supplies, pine sole, and water, ez
>cooking
I can look up any meal I would want to eat on YouTube and make it, video tutorial and recipe and all.

>>33259222
>the truth is it is harder to get a girl at 5’9” 310 lbs than it is to lose 100-150 lbs
that is absolutely not true. I'm not saying to not lose weight but getting chicks at 310 can be done in a few nights, losing 100-150 lbs is 12+months of discipline

>>33259258
>I can look up any meal I would want to eat on YouTube and make it, video tutorial and recipe and all.
Yes, but would you? Or just microwave chicken nuggies all day? Seems like you would just go path of least resistance as shown by your attitude towards cleaning.

>>33259272
>Yes, but would you? Or just microwave chicken nuggies all day?
I don't even eat chicken nuggets girl what are you talking about.
I wouldn't mind having a woman for that feminine touch, it's just that I don't really need it. I'm a capable man. I can do things myself. Getting a girlfriend just so she can do shit like cooking and cleaning solely? Why?

>>33257984 (OP)
>a man of size
You mean gravitationally challenged? I won't read morbidly obese monstrosity threads.

Just get on Ozempic, everyone else is, even if they're lying about it.

>has money
>won’t just buy ozempic
Retard

>>33257984 (OP)
>Could I get a college aged girl with these stats?
Hell no