My girlfriend likes to dress sexy every once in a while, nothing too crazy, just maybe a short skirt or a little cleavage here and there. she's also got a tramp stamp of a rose, which can be seen whenever she bends. I have never told her to dress any particular way but tbvh it makes me feel super insecure.

I brought it up that i feel insecure and jealous when I see her dressing that way when she goes out without me, and she was receptive enough to have a discussion about my feelings on it.

Thing is that i have no fucking idea why i feel like this. what's the root cause? help me fellas

No reddit tier answers please

>>33258685 (OP)
You might be insecure that other men may ogle her, or that's she seeking attention from other men.

For further help, you must post a picture of her.

>>33258685 (OP)
Pair this behavior with the rest of her manner, do you think she's doing this for sexual validation from others? Do you think she's trying to disrespect you or your relationship? If not, then it truly is a "you" problem, and the root might be whether you're worried you're not actually good enough to keep her, or that someone else will impress her enough to steal her away. Consider that she could be with those other guys if she wanted to anyway, and yet she's with you. If those guys are really better than you, why wouldn't she go for them? Must be because they're not, and that's not how she sees it. If you really think she could be "stolen" from you, then why would you want to keep her since she's not loyal or honest? If you follow any line of logic back to the root cause and think about it, it doesn't make sense to be insecure or jealous about this. She chose you, you chose her, and if she really wants to leave or go with someone else she can, but she's not and that must be for a reason. Unless she's doing something that's actually disrespectful, or is addicted to male validation from others, then I'd let it go and call it a win that she can dress that way, maybe even get the attention you're worried about, and come home to you without even worrying about whether they're interested in her. Other guys are always gonna be interested in what you have, same goes for her, women experience the same thing, what matters is that you keep choosing each other and disregard everyone else who might want you; it doesn't matter if neither of you want them.

>>33258685 (OP)
>Thing is that i have no fucking idea why i feel like this. what's the root cause?
Femininity. Jealousy is not an emotion serious males dwell upon.

>>33258685 (OP)
You men want to cry about something you were attracted to and let slide. Why? You bought it and used it so no do over.

But so you are not mistaken. Women don't wear provocative clothing so they WON'T be noticed but because they will be noticed. Having a bf or husband doesn't change that desire and can be cause for her to try harder to be noticed by others because a bf or husband pays no attention

>>33258685 (OP)
>Thing is that i have no fucking idea why i feel like this. what's the root cause? help me fellas
You think she can do better than you.

nta. bump because im on the same boat

she’s doing it because she needs the attention. it’s a mental illness and gets worse once they hit the wall because they have to go to greater and greater lengths to get the same attention

Its because male brain is wired to treat their sexual partner as a possession, because losing her is basically failing evolutionary process and it sucks really badly. Because of this we are extremely jealous, and (rightly) paranoid about them leaving us. The best theorists on the matter don't recommend talking about your feelings on the matter with your woman. You basically have two options. The first is to set a firm boundary, that you wont tolerate her dressing like that, and its okay if she dresses like that, but you will leave her if she continues. The second is to basically just let her act and dress this way, and if she ends up cheating or monkey branching (she is signaling that she is open to this) you basically just act un-phased, tell her good luck and move on to your next option (very chad and confident). I personally think that having your woman dress like a muslim is contrary to human nature, and for most women and situations in life you will need to accept they leave, change their mind, have no sense of real commitment, and you might as well appreciate the beauty of the whore for what she is.

>>33258685 (OP)
>no fucking idea
because you don't want porn-brained freaks flirting and trying to fuck your girl, it's that simple, but unfortunately this is the cost of dating a hot girl, if she's a good girl you don't have anything to worry about

>>33261718
>she needs the attention
>mental illness
how is evolution a mental illness dumbass

I'm kinda similar but i think my insecurity stems from some of my gfs comments.

She's repeatedly mentioned that I'm not her usual type which makes me wonder what her type is and whether she's dressing sexy to attract more of her type

>>33258685 (OP)
She's going to cuck you

Your senses tell you what you need to know. Don't date a girl with visible tattoos bro. She got it in that place where it shows to send a signal for a reason. Never take them hoes serious

>>33258685 (OP)
>she's also got a tramp stamp of a rose
she cheats on you 200% lol