Anonymous
6/22/2025, 5:23:27 PM No.33258732
What is the difference between having sex with genuine emotional connection and having sex with no connection?
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Thread 33258732 - /adv/ [Archived: 1466 hours ago]
Anonymous
6/22/2025, 5:24:05 PM No.33258738
>>33258732 (OP)
it's all the difference in the world
it's all the difference in the world
Anonymous
6/22/2025, 5:25:05 PM No.33258745
>>33258732 (OP)
one's life affirming and the other is life sucking
one's life affirming and the other is life sucking
Anonymous
6/22/2025, 5:33:49 PM No.33258786
>>33258732 (OP)
Sex with connection is like giving and receiving the best gift ever. Makes you want to do it over and over again
Sex without connection is like getting your rocks off, and then having zero interest to do it again afterwards.
Sex with connection is like giving and receiving the best gift ever. Makes you want to do it over and over again
Sex without connection is like getting your rocks off, and then having zero interest to do it again afterwards.
Anonymous
6/22/2025, 6:15:27 PM No.33258913
>>33258732 (OP)
When sex is good it is wonderful, a bonding experience, an emotional orgasm nore than a physical one
When sex is bad, it is still pretty good
When sex is good it is wonderful, a bonding experience, an emotional orgasm nore than a physical one
When sex is bad, it is still pretty good
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Anonymous
6/22/2025, 6:17:18 PM No.33258919
>>33258732 (OP)
if there is passion in both instances there is little to no difference to be completely honest
the only difference is the cuddling before and afterwards
t. had very commited and loving relationships and also is a manwhore when single.
if there is passion in both instances there is little to no difference to be completely honest
the only difference is the cuddling before and afterwards
t. had very commited and loving relationships and also is a manwhore when single.
Anonymous
6/22/2025, 6:17:47 PM No.33258924
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Anonymous
6/22/2025, 6:20:46 PM No.33258932
>>33258732 (OP)
to be honest I'm not surprised you ask this as I can see all the time around here that a good fuck apparently really rocks their world to the point of confusing passion and physical attraction with something more meaningful
from time to time I fuck a girl so good that she wants to tell me "I love you" while I'm fucking her
I always tell them not to say things they might later regret just in the heat of the moment
and I'm right, they always later see our encounters as passion filled but not an indicative of love
people with little to no experience or eager to be loved might confuse these two very easily, all the girls who got confused were going through a weird period in their lives when we fucked.
to be honest I'm not surprised you ask this as I can see all the time around here that a good fuck apparently really rocks their world to the point of confusing passion and physical attraction with something more meaningful
from time to time I fuck a girl so good that she wants to tell me "I love you" while I'm fucking her
I always tell them not to say things they might later regret just in the heat of the moment
and I'm right, they always later see our encounters as passion filled but not an indicative of love
people with little to no experience or eager to be loved might confuse these two very easily, all the girls who got confused were going through a weird period in their lives when we fucked.
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Anonymous
6/22/2025, 6:26:48 PM No.33258957
>>33258732 (OP)
Sex naturally comes with connection. Some get their systems fried, either by treating it like a free candy button you can push as much as you want, by trauma causing maladaptive relationships with sex and others, or by being socialized to be sociopathic, but sex creates psychological and chemical bonds between people as a rule. The difference is in whether you even have the actual emotional and psychological capacity for that connection or not, and if you don't, it's a hollow act that usually leaves you feeling empty once the moment passes. One is closeness, connection, understanding, vulnerability, and the other is a void within your soul that you try to fill with other people. People that have sex without love don't just separate those two from one another, they're incapable of real love in general. In my experience they equate love with "happiness" and so end up in perpetual emotionally immature relationships.
Sex naturally comes with connection. Some get their systems fried, either by treating it like a free candy button you can push as much as you want, by trauma causing maladaptive relationships with sex and others, or by being socialized to be sociopathic, but sex creates psychological and chemical bonds between people as a rule. The difference is in whether you even have the actual emotional and psychological capacity for that connection or not, and if you don't, it's a hollow act that usually leaves you feeling empty once the moment passes. One is closeness, connection, understanding, vulnerability, and the other is a void within your soul that you try to fill with other people. People that have sex without love don't just separate those two from one another, they're incapable of real love in general. In my experience they equate love with "happiness" and so end up in perpetual emotionally immature relationships.
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Anonymous
6/22/2025, 6:28:07 PM No.33258963
>>33258932
They're confused because what you're both doing is unnatural and reducing them to a warm fleshlight. Their response is the human one.
They're confused because what you're both doing is unnatural and reducing them to a warm fleshlight. Their response is the human one.
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Anonymous
6/22/2025, 6:28:36 PM No.33258964
>>33258957
>all people is a monogamous life bonding people and the ones that are not are wrong
it's proven this is not true anon.
>all people is a monogamous life bonding people and the ones that are not are wrong
it's proven this is not true anon.
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Anonymous
6/22/2025, 6:31:47 PM No.33258975
>>33258963
see I could believe you a little bit more if I heard this in normal circles even once instead of only on this chud website filled to the brim with people with very controversial takes and rejected by the gross of the population.
everyone else seems to accept there are people who can only have sex while in love and those who can have sex at any moment in their lives and both are normal well functioning people
see I could believe you a little bit more if I heard this in normal circles even once instead of only on this chud website filled to the brim with people with very controversial takes and rejected by the gross of the population.
everyone else seems to accept there are people who can only have sex while in love and those who can have sex at any moment in their lives and both are normal well functioning people
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Anonymous
6/22/2025, 6:32:05 PM No.33258976
>>33258924
Rape is not sex. It is violence
Rape is not sex. It is violence
Anonymous
6/22/2025, 6:56:15 PM No.33259055
>>33258964
Monogamy is the natural state, no cavemen did not live in harems, and yes everything else is modern socialized degeneracy done by people with mental issues.
>>33258975
Normal circles? Most people know this and live this way anon. Monogamy is the norm. If you were to turn off your screens and exist solely in the real world for a while, you'd see that degeneracy is rare and most people date to mate for life. People keep acting like the average number of partners people have is double digits, it's not, and the average itself is even skewed by a few who fuck around a lot. Most people are monogamous and have sex with an emotional connection involved.
Monogamy is the natural state, no cavemen did not live in harems, and yes everything else is modern socialized degeneracy done by people with mental issues.
>>33258975
Normal circles? Most people know this and live this way anon. Monogamy is the norm. If you were to turn off your screens and exist solely in the real world for a while, you'd see that degeneracy is rare and most people date to mate for life. People keep acting like the average number of partners people have is double digits, it's not, and the average itself is even skewed by a few who fuck around a lot. Most people are monogamous and have sex with an emotional connection involved.
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Anonymous
6/22/2025, 8:11:34 PM No.33259298
>>33258732 (OP)
in the first case you're happy when pregnancy happens in the second case you're not.
in the first case you're happy when pregnancy happens in the second case you're not.
Anonymous
6/22/2025, 8:16:33 PM No.33259318
>>33259055
sure bro
sure bro