define the relationship - /adv/ (#33259131) [Archived: 1445 hours ago]

Anonymous
6/22/2025, 7:25:15 PM No.33259131
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how do i approach this conversation? i’ve been exclusively dating this girl for almost 2 months now. i am ready and quite confident she is waiting for me to make the move. never made it official before though
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Anonymous
6/22/2025, 7:27:26 PM No.33259138
>>33259131 (OP)
Grab her right by the pussy
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Anonymous
6/22/2025, 10:09:07 PM No.33259872
>>33259138
i prefer a more subtle and thoughtful way
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Anonymous
6/22/2025, 11:32:40 PM No.33260308
>>33259872
Grab her by the neck and hip, tenderly
Anonymous
6/23/2025, 12:18:54 AM No.33260568
>>33259131 (OP)
Literally just ask what she wants you to be, what's complicated about it other than your own timidity and fear of outcome?

Let it go. Accept whatever she says. Because it's good either way. Think about it, man - if she says she doesn't want to be your gf, she is already thinking it anyway. It's better to know. Don't be afraid. It's always good to ask and now, and it will set a good foundation for your relationship. Clear communication is the water that keeps a relationship alive.
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Anonymous
6/23/2025, 8:46:55 AM No.33262202
>>33260568
I don’t want to turn it into something super serious i guess, so i simply ask her will you be my gf and that’s it? I do indeed think communication is important yet i become nervous thinking about this next move
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Anonymous
6/23/2025, 10:26:52 AM No.33262435
>>33262202
Just... Just fucking do it
Anonymous
6/23/2025, 1:59:57 PM No.33262999
>>33262202
>don't want something super serious
So you want her to be exclusive but not you. Typical male one foot in and one out the door.