How do I actually love a woman? - /adv/ (#33259869) [Archived: 890 hours ago]

Anonymous
6/22/2025, 10:08:04 PM No.33259869
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I remember a year ago I tried make a tinder because I felt curious on what a relationship feels like. I got about 90 matches or something and tried the dating thing, the problem is: I don't feel any feelings toward any women, I just feel urge to sex but most of the time I prefer to be left in solitude and enjoy time alone, I never feel what is to "love" or connect with someone. I would never use a woman just for sex btw

How do I develop those kind of feelings towards a person?
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Anonymous
6/22/2025, 11:00:58 PM No.33260145
Anyone?
Anonymous
6/22/2025, 11:07:14 PM No.33260163
Bonk
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>>33259869 (OP)
How old are you? This is more normal in men approaching or after 30. Meeting them on dumbass apps makes it way worse, because the automatic flesh-computer part of your brain sees all these available holes and concludes there are lots of options.
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Anonymous
6/22/2025, 11:16:19 PM No.33260199
>>33260163
I am 25
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Anonymous
6/23/2025, 1:25:06 AM No.33260760
>>33259869 (OP)
Relatable
Anonymous
6/23/2025, 2:40:39 AM No.33261045
>>33259869 (OP)
I donโ€™t even get more than 5 likes
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Anonymous
6/23/2025, 2:58:10 AM No.33261123
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>>33259869 (OP)
>>33260199
26 anon here. What you're feeling is the aftermath of prolonged isolation or profound loneliness. Once you go long enough, your brain literally reprograms itself akin to ancient nomadic humans traversing a great distance alone. You are actively in a state of raised guard due to this state of mind. The byproduct of this sensation is your game gets whack because you're too wound up.

If you lived with the bros or good family who objectively have your best interests in mind then that breaks that previously mentioned sensation of heightend guard and survival like awareness. You're not stupid anons, you're set-up, you got a debuff on you. Only way out of this is the hard part. Have friends or acquaintances or senpai to hang out with physically that don't make you wanna blow yo head smoof off for at least 2 weeks but you also gotta wanna change to truly grasp "it" (that being a lowered guard, and internal peace) once this new state of mind is achieved it shall essentially cause you to attract rather than chase, to exude warmth "aura" rather than withdrawn cold "aura"
Your perspective will alter due to the paradigm shift in your brain, this in turn will help you see what women do in person and play the game. Once you play the game all you gotta do is win it and that win is whatever that looks and feels like to you individually. Women are very observant so they'll pick up on these changes.
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Anonymous
6/23/2025, 3:45:07 AM No.33261308
>>33261045
Ok, what your profile looks like?
Anonymous
6/23/2025, 4:05:07 AM No.33261381
I felt that before I met my first (now ex) girlfriend. You might be fucked up, but you also might just need to keep searching until you find that person you connect with (real)
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Anonymous
6/23/2025, 7:43:54 PM No.33264336
>>33261123
That's very interesting
Anonymous
6/23/2025, 10:45:02 PM No.33264867
>>33261381
>You might be fucked up
What you mean?