I think my dad is a faggot, and I think I was treated like the scapegoat in my family/abused to hide that he's the dysfunctional one.

I know that he was abused by his dad growing up and he had it rough but he seems like such a faggot now that I'm an Adult and can see that he is not a normal dad. I'm scared that this fucked me up/I'm broken now and have hard time dating.

- Barely ever seen him kiss my mom, never showed her affection growing up
- Got weirdly angry when me and brother were shirtless in the house "PUT A SHIRT ON!"
- Never talked to us about sex, acted weird about sex, and told us "NO CO-ED SLEEPOVERS!"
- He is a priest, which is fine, but adding this to the other stuff, it makes me think he became a priest to run away from his Gay thoughts

When I think about my dad and the way he acts, the way he acts towards my mom his own wife, the fact that his parents and family barely speak to him, etc. I get scared thinking that he's gay/had gay thoughts and that's why he was such a piece of shit growing up and that's why he became a priest.

I get sad because I feel like my life is a lie, my dad is a liar, and instead of having a normal career or being smart he decided to be poor and broke for the rest of his life just so he can hide his gayness behind religion and stuff.

Come out as something yourself just to piss him off. Say "I was probably born this way. I wonder why"

>my dad is emotionally cold and maybe a closet homo
meh, I wouldn't think about it too hard
not-enough-love is better than a cock in the mouth
and I doubt you want to be the one who talks him out of the closet

>>33260295
I used to be friends with Gay people to piss him off then I got older and stopped doing things to piss my dad off, but he's a faggot, I think about other men I have met in life, other kids dads, and then I think about my dad...and he doesn't give a shit about women at all, I think I've seen him kiss my mom once, it's so fucking weird

>>33260264 (OP)
>barely seen him kiss my mom
Normal boomer marriage
>made me wear a shirt
Not sure your logic here.
>acted weird about sex
We are still flat square in totally normal boomer parent territory
>is a priest
Guy like nothing you mentioned here means anyhting unless you really want it to.

This is why astrology is still so popular. People dont understand their retarded brains can prove whatever they want.

I have a friend with a gay dad. How do they know? They more than one time caught him and dragged him out of gay bath houses and refuse to talk to him until he confessed to their mom.

This is called "evidence". Things that actually mean what you say they do. Youre using a fallacy called circular reasoning.

>>33260482
I appreciate you playing devils advocate
I just can't tell sometimes because I feel like my dad definitely just acts like a moody bitch he doesn't like a 'man' and this fucked me up growing up I had a lot to learn on my own, so I just want to know if he's gay for being so repressed and angry growing up or if he's just an asshole

>>33260264 (OP)
He's not gay, just religious - which is much worse.

>>33260518
I think about my dad
A grown man could have done anything with his life, chooses to live his life barely loving his wife, not showing her love, and being mean and hating on his sons. Why? What kind of man does this? A faggot. That's why I ask.

>>33260264 (OP)
>Never talked to us about sex, acted weird about sex, and told us "NO CO-ED SLEEPOVERS!"
this is absolutely not what a fag does. totally disqualifying

>>33260554
Really? So why does he never kiss his wife barely ever show love and hate his sons? Because I think he'd be much happier if he was just Gay somewhere. Instead he's hiding his true self and hurting my mom and brothers. No?

What kind of "straight" man never once shows love to his wife and beats on his sons and wears a black dress as a priest? A GAY MAN. HE SEEMS GAY TO ME. IF I HAD A WIFE I'D KISS HER EVERYDAY AND IF I HAD SONS I WOULD RAISE THEM TO BE WINNERS. I THINK MY DAD IS A CLOSETED FAGGOT AND I THINK I KNEW THIS SINCE I WAS YOUNG AND IT MAKES IT HARD TO RESPECT HIM SINCE I THINK HE'S LYING ABOUT WHO HE IS.

>>33260579
>RAISE THEM TO BE WINNERS
there it is

cry if you must
no amount of hating your parents will change your circumstances

>>33260544
>A grown man could have done anything with his life, chooses to live his life barely loving his wife, not showing her love, and being mean and hating on his sons. Why? What kind of man does this?
A religious man.

Youre talking like you got into an argument about you being a loser and are crying about it on your furry gay porn site, your dad sounds cool

>>33260579
>everyone who doesn't kiss, love and have sex with their wife 24/7 is gay
If that was true half the population would be gay by your definition
>What kind of "straight" man never once shows love to his wife
There are a lot more reasons why someone would hate his wife other than being gay. Have you considered the possibility that your mom had an affair and your father found out about it and that's why he's pissed? or maybe she never had but your father believes it anyway?
>beats on his sons
Again, child abuse =/= being gay

As >>33260482 said, stop assuming bullshit out of your ass unless you have some real evidence to back it up.