For the first time in my life, at age 32, a woman is interested in me. We went out on a date, have flirty conversations, it's pretty nice, I don't want to fuck this up.

Do I tell her I'm a virgin? If I don't, my lack of experience will be completely obvious either way when we finally get there. I don't want to drag her along only for her to discover that I've been essentially lying and have end it on a negative note

>>33260633 (OP)
Semi stupid question, but how much of a virgin are you? Do you know some female anatomy and can pound or give head, or are you straight up retard level where she says "lower" when you try to put it in?

>>33260633 (OP)
It's best to be honest.

Yeah, good chance she won't be happy about it. But you need to find someone who accepts you for who you are not and pretend to be someone you're not.

You should only tell her that if she asks, or right before you have sex, when she's already fully invested and committed. "By the way, just letting you know I'm a virgin, hopefully I do alright." Something like that. Don't make it a big deal, because it actually isn't.

>>33260633 (OP)
>For the first time in my life, at age 32, a woman is interested in me.

Correction, a woman is interested in making you her retirement plan.

>>33260633 (OP)
>Do I tell her I'm a virgin
No, never ever ever ever do this. It will turn her off, and you chalk up your inexperience to just having a bad night (if necessary, if nothing is said and the night is bad she may just think you're not that into her).

Don't tell her

But she'll figure out out.

>>33260633 (OP)
>DO NOT TELL HER YOU ARE A VIRGIN

You're a 32 year old man, you shouldn't be a virgin.
That's not normal and chicks get scared off from shit like that.
Obviously don't act like you're Andrew Tate and bullshit her into believing you've fucked dozens of women.
Just be as smooth as possible and say that you've had a few experiences before, not many, but you know how to handle yourself.
It's really that simple and let's be honest - you probably know what a boob or vagina looks like, right? you've seen porn a ton most likely? you have an idea what sex is.
That's enough to get you by the first time.

If shit gets really bad and you're totally lost, just say that you really like her and that you're nervous because you find her so special.