I got this girl’s number on the street. She looks exactly like my ex when did when I first met her. She even has similar mannerisms.

I am still not over my ex.

Is it therefore a bad idea to go on this date next weekend?

>>33260898 (OP)
>I am still not over my ex.

>Is it therefore a bad idea to go on this date next weekend?


she is not your ex. She might look like her but they are two different people. Different voices, mindsets, thoughts, spirits, personalities. It’s bad because you are still looking for your ex in other people in some way. Move the fuck on

>>33260898 (OP)
I would say to what extent you are not "over" here and how long its been since you have spoken & broke up. Its common for guys to not totally be over the last girl until they meet the next one. However, if for example, you would get sad if you found out she found a new guy, still seethe about her sucking new cocks, constantly reminisce over good times, still hope for her to change her mind, etc. You should probably wait more time. I think a year of no contact is a good baseline. If you're ran through you can probably get over it more quickly but it doesnt sound like you are.

>>33260913
>>33261274

When I say I’m not over my ex, I would be sad in a way if I knew she was getting run through and not being treated right. If I found out she was getting married that would probably help me get over her. I do reminisce on the good times, and she was an absolute dime piece. It would be bitter sweet. The idea of her giving another guy head would just be bitter, unless that guy was serious about her.

We have not spoken in over a year, and before that we hadn’t spoken in about two years. She was my first love, hence my attachment.

>>33261274
I should add that I’ve been with quite a few girls since her, but never anything serious. A couple have been willing, but I’ve not been, for more reasons than just my ex most usually. However she does often go through my mind when I’m with other women.

OP, I did the same and it was awful. the original girl (not ex just childhood crush), was very trad and cute. the doppelganger turned out to be a turbo slut who literally has a swinger club membership and photos of herself on the website and she told me about gangbangs there (unfortunately AFTER I started getting feelings for her).

nothing can replace the original, do not make that mistake.

>>33262589
In a way, I think if it went bad it would probably help me internalise what you’re saying. The original no longer exists, and look-alikes are nothing like her.

If she’s different, but also lovey, that would be ideal, as I find both of them extremely hot.

>>33260898 (OP)
play silent hill 2 and make up your mind