Showed these texts to her rebound bf. And asking him when he started dating her.
What ended up happening is she ended up deleting him and all her friends.
And when I tried talking to her after that. She told me to never reach out to her again.
I don't understand. What did I do wrong?
Is it really that bad if she asked me "what's gonna be different this time" to me while she was still dating him?
What would he think of that?
I really don't understand what I did wrong.
Am I the asshole for wanting some clarity?

>>33261591 (OP)
I dont understand the sequence of events here, but I do recommend you cut communication with this woman entirely and forever, and if she ever contacts you just leave it on read. It will happen eventually so might as well start right now

>>33261605
no, she told me to never ever reach out to her again. I told her she's said that many times in the past. But she told me this time it was true.
I mean after all she cut off all her besties as well

>>33261615
okay so I would just follow her advice. When a lady shows you the final curtain it is best to accept it. they decide these things and usually end up being right even though our heart have trouble accepting it

>>33261623
but its confusing cause she said this same thing once. and when I ghosted her for nearly 4 years after she broke up with me. she would always bring it up. that i broke her and she never got over it.
so maybe if she tries reaching out to me again after giving me these final orders, and I ignore her again and wait a few years. she'll tell me the same thing

>>33261697
you’re just doing this for the personal validation. you want to know she wants you. find someone else to want you and move on. she sounds toxic but you also sound toxic

>>33261697
So you want to be a guy who just waits around for a woman who fucks other guys while she calls you up whenever she doesnt have any other options? Over the course of several years? It sounds like you are being emotionally abused

>>33261716
thats what I told her when I broke up with her, i didnt wnat to be that guy
>>33261713
no i genuinely loved her but she kept driving me away.
i dated others, but shes the one I love. i dont really feel any connection with anyone else

>>33261745
You are being treated like shit and you have given her all the power in this dynamic. She is literally fucking other guys man. You care more about her than she does about you. You need to stop talking to her. This is extremely disrespectful. You are being treated like an insect.

I don't know what to do. I never stopped loving you and I've been faithful. All I ask is you do the same

>>33261591 (OP)
Both of you seem toxic. I'll say that much.

>>33263368
how can I change? What did I do wrong?
What can she do to improve?

>>33263631
You broke up with her despite no reason to do so.

As for her, read the last two texts. Enough said.

>>33264196
If your gf told you she cheated on you would you stay with her?

Her last 2 texts is when she started dating her rebound

>>33264225
Explain these things in detail. When she said she cheated on May 21, you were in a relationship with her at this point?

>>33264230
Yes, she was upset with me, because I wasn't ready for marriage, so she ghosted me starting may 5th, she didnt respond to my messages, she came back in June to tell me that

She claimed it happened "when we weren't talking" but it was when she ghosted

Obviously we were dating the whole time. After this she kept asking if we could have an open relationship.

NOw she pretends she completely innocent and I broke up with her for no reason and it's my fault for not wanting marriage