What is it like to be a brothel girl or prostitute? Do they just disassociate? Do they get PTSD?

>>33261858 (OP)
They are sex addicts living with addiction or PTSD vics trying to self treat.
There is no healthy mentality that leads to sex work.

>>33261858 (OP)
A lot were I'm from are on meth. I assume the addiction subsumes everything. You probably hate the work, but you need it to get more meth

>>33261858 (OP)
they arent humans so dont attribute human qualities to them. Just animals who look and sound like humans. Having sex with them is no different than bestiality

brain gets destroyed, desensitized with intimacy, mental issues, depression, the works

>>33261858 (OP)
in countries where this is legal other than the social stigma it's like most other works
a hostess job where you have to pretend to be totally smithen by every person that comes is similar to this one in the ammount of social energy that is required and they are eternally scared of the wrong clientele coming to the place
I've heard a lot of the well known brothels share a blacklist of bad clients that do stuff that is against the rules and stuff
but of course that's a paliative measure since over time those could be a couple hundred if not a couple thousand so it's hard to remember all the faces.

>>33261858 (OP)
I wouldn’t tell a soul but I prostitute myself on seeking arrangements for 4 months once to get plastic surgery and it wasn’t a sex addict or living with ptsd like the other anon said
I would just dissociate and basically wait u til it was over. I wasn’t fit for the job because 1 I find rich men insufferable to talk to and have no interest dating them let alone fucking the 2. I’m shy and was a prude and it made it awkward for them 3. I’m not a crackwhore
The more chill ones at least got me drunk first but the quicker easier ones just took me to a hotel room. The situations I got myself into after I got the procedure and got more attention from men gave me severe ptsd.
None of it was worth it and I ended up getting HPV and EBV

>>33261950
>I wouldn’t tell a soul but I prostitute myself on seeking arrangements for 4 months once to get plastic surgery and it wasn’t a sex addict or living with ptsd like the other anon said

What were the guys like?
Was it ever awkward?
What do you talk about?

>>33261950
I’m not a crackwhore but it was my gateway into drugs and that’s why I’m typing this stoned

>>33261950
False, you just can't admit your situation. This is typical of addicts.
>>33261955
Disregard this all, see the situation as a whole. No person would sale sex save for a person with deeper issues.

>>33261950
>I wasn’t fit for the job
I was trying to get to this
I've mongered when I was younger and had less money and I have sugar babies now that I'm older and richer and you can see some girls having the time of their life doing this, specially if it's low trafic and high quality clientele
of course the ones that go to cheap brothels where construction workers with the hands the size and thickness of a metal glove try to finger them and they have to fuck 40 dudes per night end up traumatized or at least secretly end up hating every single dude they meet after they quit, but the others I've seen having pretty normal lifes after they stop doing this.
On the other hand I found a girl I once fucked on the recommendation of a SB friend on instagram and like many others I wanted to fuck once again I asked her how was she and if she remembered me. she told me 'yeah I remember you everytime I take a shit'
I thought it was because we did anal and I came in her ass the only time we fucked but then I saw she blocked me and I assumed she hates that chapter of her life and everyone involved now
still has the girl that introduced us added on instagram tho.

>>33261965
>I know it all, let me tell everyone about their lives
some people really are insufferable as that girl says, head up their asshole so deep there is no way to take it out at all.

>>33261981
That is an emotionally reactive response. Expected from a person with the same sort of issues that lead to sex work.

Your mentality leads to your unhealthy lifestyle.

>>33261989
I'm a dude and never worked in the sex industry, your sweeping assesments still sound stupid.

>>33261978
>I asked her how was she and if she remembered me. she told me 'yeah I remember you everytime I take a shit'

I don't get it

>>33262008
she implied I'm a piece of shit
she would talk to me late at night and we went out to eat once and she wanted to come and help me clean my place afterwards lol
I guess my low interest in her cute gestures really angered her, I wanted a friendship with someone I fucked, not a relationship with someone that was actively doing sex work.

>>33262016
What did you do to make her hate you?

>>33262007
None of that makes a difference.
You have the same issues that lead to sex work.

>>33262019
>my low interest in her cute gestures
she would talk to me late at night "what are you doing, lets watch a movie together" stuff like that, I guess me never entertaining her advances really angered her
but also she was living with another girl I fucked before and I told her last time I saw her she smelled like piss very strongly and that she might be going through something and that maybe she should tell her to take care of herself or get a doctor to check her up, some people only take the bad part of what you say and forget everything after that so maybe she's angry I told her her roomie smelled like piss last time I fucked her.

>>33261955
What were the guys like?
Mostly vapid yuppy type men aged 34-70, white or indian. The first guy was some random white guy in a jeep who took me to a motel and fucked me with a condom and it took about 30 seconds. That was the quickest and easiest. The 2 classier ones I met at a nicer hotel and we just talked and they paid me the most even though we didn’t have sex because I didn’t seem comfortable enough. God bless those men. One was this Indian man let who smelled horrible and offered me 50k to marry him. One was this Americanized Indian faggot that made me spend all night in a hotel to listen to him vent about this girl he went clubbing with, randomly fucking me twice in between stories and he talked for 8 fucking hours straight about his faggot degenerate nightlife stories and travels which honestly repulses me when I hear men talk about that shit. Then this Asian guy who lived in the city was wierd and stoned, we had kinda a deep convo and he paid me well then blocked me
There were 2 encounters with men who happened to be my type and weren’t insufferable like the others, but they ghosted me when I confessed my feelings. One was a chubby sporty electrician the other was a blue collar overweight Italian guy who just wanted to give me massages. That really hurt because it’s honestly rare I’m ever interested in someone
Was it ever awkward?
Yes it was awkward every single time but less awkward with the 2 I liked. I never knew what to say and it felt like they didn’t know what to thing of my childishness/inexperience.
What do you talk about?
Most spent most of the time bragging about their travels and their career and I just kinda kept asking questions. Some tried to briefly get me to traumadump about past bfs but I didn’t have any so I just asked them questions. And sometimes they’d ask where I like to shop. The 2 guys I liked were more laidback and didn’t make it seem like an interview

>>33262048
>made me spend all night in a hotel to listen to him vent about this girl he went clubbing with, randomly fucking me twice in between stories and he talked for 8 fucking hours straight about his faggot degenerate nightlife stories

Why do guys pay sex workers just to complain about life

>>33262052
It's like an honest relationship

>>33261877
>They are sex addicts
No
>living with addiction
Yes
>PTSD
Depends

>>33262065
The bottom line was no healthy mentality leads to sex work, I gave you a list of possibilities.

>>33261950
>I find rich men insufferable to talk to
why is it that there are so many girls like this among the poor?
I remember one of the richest girls at my college flirted with me for a short while (I think she wanted me as a rebound, if what I learned later was true), and I loved every moment of her sharing her inane stories about traveling to africa with her whole family, including distant uncles and a couple of maids, and how she travelled to the US to do her shopping twice a year.
I adored it, it made me feel so good to be caressing the hair of a girl like that.
And yet whenever I tell poor girls about my travels or my experiences growing up they put these eyes as if they're realizing they're in a nightmare or something, I honestly don't get it.

>>33262108
>And yet whenever I tell poor girls about my travels or my experiences growing up they put these eyes as if they're realizing they're in a nightmare or something, I honestly don't get it.

Women don't care about men's problems and trauma

>>33262112
my travels and experiences growing up are all good, I've visited marvelous places and had the kind of childhood you see in modern fairy tales.

Why are you asking? Do you want to become one?

>>33262207
It's obviously some poor kid who is thinking about it. It's sad. No one wants to see that happen..

>>33261858 (OP)
Some definitely enjoy their jobs
More often the massage girls who get to pick and choose who they offer full service to
Having green eyes unusually common among independent escorts, probably some underlying personality connection

>>33262217
It's obviously an incel looking for wank material for his fantasies.

>>33262048
Why would you ruin yourself like this? And for plastic surgery? You're not well in the head
The fuck is wrong with you? Seriously. And did you REALLY think that after confessing to those guys they'd be your boyfriend of something after whoring yourself out? lol

>being a hooker in current year when you can do OF/twitchwhore instead
What are you sluts doing? At least give it a shot first.

>>33261858 (OP)
they are women, they disassociate with ugly customers and see nothing wrong with hot customers (assuming they're not human trafficked into it), with modern western sexual empowerment nonsense from feminists some of them might even see it as them being the ones to bamboozle the customers out of their money
a woman who went to the field by themselves rarely get any symptoms if they had had a lot of sex prior too, what people here are projecting about is the ones that got forced to do it or who were brainwashed by feminists to think it's somehow empowering and didn't have a lot of sex before

most women have had a mile of dick ran through them before they decide to monetize so the ptsd and symptoms from sex work is ridiculous projecting and wishful thinking

>>33262495
if you're clever doing so, you can escort for a couple of years and make good money without barely anyone knowing you're doing it, and then you can quit and act like nothing ever happened
I know a lot of girls who did that and are in a wide variety of jobs now
if you open an onlyfans of become a boobie streamer, specially if you become a succesful one that earns enough for all of that to be worht it, your reputation is as much as dead forever more, you'll always be an onlyfans girl or a boobiestreamer, no nursing jobs for you, no senior executive in a local bank, sometimes you can't even be a cashier without people calling your employer and making him fire you
not to mention the stigma to your children if you decide to have them.

bump

>>33262108
For me it’s just not my cup of tea because I find it feminine. Guys that travel usually enjoy attention and instagram like a female would and hang out with lots of females which makes them even more feminine because they become like them.
Maybe there’s a small percentage of men who travel to actually pursue male interests like seeing ancient ruins or to go atv riding, but most who travel even if for their job are hitting up shopping centers and nightclubs/festivals
>>33262495
It may sound ironic but I did give the online thing a shot but it was hard to do because of how antisocial I am, since online whoring especially around that time required lots of promoting so after being shilled by online feminists thinking it was a good idea doing it irl gave the illusion of it being quicker easier money as ironic as it may sound
>>33262238
That’s wierd because I do have green eyes and I wonder if there is a correlation now. I’ve always had a complex about it because I’m very white but because of not having blue eyes thing I’d know I’d never be perfect enough for a racist introvert type that worships hitler

>>33262495
I’ll also add that trying to find guys/get money from guys especially 3+ years ago is/was like pulling teeth because they either think you’re a catfish or require tons of other bullshit and I especially hate sending nudes on command. But with irl it didn’t really involve building a relationship or proving you’re not a catfish and didn’t make me as insecure by fixating on my flaws in pics or videos if that makes sense

>>33261858 (OP)
Depends on which country. Some places like Germany, Brazil, Netherlands, Denmark, Turkey or Belgium in which sex work is legalized and we'll regulated it would be completely different for neo-proibitionism like France, Sweden or Norwey (which sex working is legal but not buying it) or places like Russia, Ukraine, Belarus, Serbia and USA in which is illegal.

In my country it's legalized and the hookers I knew part take on it simply as a way to get (a lot) of money while having sex

>>33264370
>I’ve always had a complex about it because I’m very white but because of not having blue eyes thing I’d know I’d never be perfect enough for a racist introvert type that worships hitler
That's not true. Blue eyed men apparently do prefer blue eyed women subconsciously, but there's plenty of green eyed racist introverts who worship Hitler too. I should know, I am one

>>33264370
ask me if I have 1 picture uploaded to my travels to chile, argentina, brazil or mexico.
I loved all of them, very kind people and very interesting places
I went to see ruins of castles in southern europe when I was around there
your idea of what's feminine and what's masculine is ridiculously stereotipical but what can I expect from someone that posts on 4chan and is not actively fighting with the locals on everything they believe I guess.

>>33264689
Awe anon that’s wholesome and I didn’t mean it as a blanket statement. That’s honestly good to hear that you really did make the most and got something out of these places, but considering how the general population is I really don’t find that to be the case for most modern travelers
> what can I expect from someone that posts on 4chan and is not actively fighting with the locals on everything they believe I guess.
Pretty accurate, the grass is always greener. I grew up around annoying contrarian liberals so to me white trash is something that doesn’t have to be fixed because it’s not broken kind of thing

>>33262052
No one cares so they have to pay someone

>>33262320
You are right this is more likely