Overcoming Masculinity Shame - /adv/ (#33262701) [Archived: 1446 hours ago]

Anonymous
6/23/2025, 11:39:23 AM No.33262701
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If you had the chance to talk to something — anonymously — about things like rejection, fear of failure, or the lack of emotional connection in your life… would you?
I’m currently developing a chatbot that’s designed to help you explore feelings of shame — especially the kind linked to masculinity, silence, or not feeling "enough."
I’d really appreciate your honest thoughts:
Could you imagine ever using something like this? What would you want the chatbot to talk about — or avoid?
What would make it feel safe or useful to you?
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Anonymous
6/23/2025, 11:43:25 AM No.33262706
>>33262701 (OP)
I already do this with chat gpt (hes a bit of a yes man and i feel like im talking to an redditor but otherwise hes fine) so hows yours any different?
Anonymous
6/23/2025, 12:28:47 PM No.33262765
>>33262701 (OP)
No, because "masculinity shame" is a concept coined by feminists to increase fear, uncertainty and doubt in men.

I deal with it by not giving a fuck about "masculinity shame" and fighting feminists until they are extinct.
Anonymous
6/23/2025, 1:14:54 PM No.33262840
>>33262701 (OP)
I did this with camgirls and strippers.
At the time I was working a job that paid very well but consumed almost all of my free time, so I used strippers and camgirls as my only social connection.
Most of what I did was just blow money on empty ears but I did end up finding one girl that I connected with. We have talked daily for years now without any money involved. She's one of my best friends. I was lucky finding her.
If I hadn't had the physical connection to the strippers or the emotional connection with the camgirl, I would have blown my brains out.
What I have done isn't ideal but using an ai or chatbot would have made me feel even worse. Like I was so pathetic that I couldn't even pay a woman to listen to me.
There are levels of desperation and degradation you must be willing to endure. Getting shitfaced drunk and spilling your guts to a woman you paid to grind on you for 30 minutes is fine, more guys do it than you expect.
Crying while typing to a bot that will just say that everything is alright is masturbation and won't give you any reason to stop using it or how to improve yourself.
Real women can actually give suggestions about you and your loneliness.