Am I a volcel if I can't get a woman that I want - 5/10 and slim?
Fat/overweight women are easy for me to get online, I went out with a few of them, tried to give them chances, but I can't...
I couldn't physically bring myself to even touching them, let alone kissing or having sex.
They are so repulsive. I'd literally rather have attractive girl pee all over me and would drink her piss than give a fat girl a chance.
I literally cringe as bad when I think of having sex with a fat bitch, as when I think of doing the same thing with my dad.

BUT 5/10 slim girls seem to be out of reach for me. I'd say I'm 5/10 myself, incels forums rated me around that mark. In other places I was called a 6 or 7 on average.
But I'll take 5. It's not bad. But it really seems like the female hypergamy is fucking crazy and 5/10 non-fat girls won't like you unless you are 7/10 or very tall and well built.

So I guess... should I give up online dating? Is IRL any better? Or should I give up on finding a gf in the west and try SEA?
Picrel is an example of a woman too fat by ~30-40 pounds for me.

>>33263676 (OP)
No, fuck it, make it 60 pounds probably.

>>33263676 (OP)
I've the opposite problem.
I'd love to date a young woman with a earth goddess physique, and solidly inseminate her every evening, working my way up the horizon before burying my head between her colossal fat titties, and feeling the warm embrace of her flesh all over my body as we fall asleep together.
(sorry my dick slipped out and slammed the keyboard)
Yet every fat chick I've approached has either ghosted me or just brushed me off. I've never been so upfront with these desires, I've approached them without creeping because they can be likeable women too. And only the normal sized ones have shown any interest or progress in dating.
It's so frustrating, if only we could swap auroras.

>>33263777
What the fuck... how does this happen? May I know what is your face rating and what height and body type you have?

>>33263676 (OP)
Yeah I know what you're talking about. God fat women are so fucking disgusting. Just imagining their fat, sweaty rolls, their disgusting pudgy skin, their grotesquely big asses. Their heavy breathing. Sometimes I walk the streets and wonder why these disgusting creatures even exist. Fuck fat bitches. Yeah we are volcels but I'm glad to be one, I'd rather be that than a faggot, attracted to the absolute opposite of feminity. Pigs.

>>33263819
Face: 7-8. I'm white with light brown hair. Early 30s.
I've been told I'm attractive by several women (one while drunk, so I'll take it as honest).
I can wear size M clothes comfortably, though I am a bit skinnyfat, but I go to the gym and I am gradually losing that. So nowhere near as large as the women in the above fantasy.
I must accept it is something in my lifestyle or personality.
For an example of how I talk to one: >>33263697

>>33263845
I wish people would die as soon as they hit that 26 BMI mark lol.

>>33263846
That makes sense. You are a chick magnet. And fatties know you are out of their league so thye don't even bother.
If they really are your thing, then well... we are both cursed.

>>33263845
Big asses is one thing, but I instantly think of the sweat that gathers between those asscheeks, disgusting. But what's the worst are big bellies and calves.

>>33263676 (OP)
>Am I a volcel if I can't get a woman that I want - 5/10 and slim?
Yes.

I'm the same way. I lost a significant amount of weight this year and look fucking good. People say "oh just lower your standards," sorry but no I fucking won't. It's literally not that hard to lose weight, literally just eat less. If a chick can't do something as simple as that then I don't see why I should bother.