Will pregnancy ruin my life? - /adv/ (#33264004) [Archived: 884 hours ago]

Anonymous
6/23/2025, 5:52:16 PM No.33264004
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25 m here.
Fucked around and got a chick off of tinder pregnant. She claimed she was on the pill and I didnโ€™t pull out because Iโ€™m a sex addicted retard. Sheโ€™s adamant about not getting an abortion 6 weeks into the pregnancy. What do? Is it over for me? Should I just end it? Taking any sort of legit advice.
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Anonymous
6/23/2025, 5:56:58 PM No.33264017
>>33264004 (OP)
or you could raise the child because babies are cool. I recommend using the bible as a guide and talking to a reputable pastor/theologian on how to raise children with good morality. Don't listen to the bitter atheists on here that will tell you to kill the baby or something evil like that.
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Anonymous
6/23/2025, 5:59:02 PM No.33264024
>>33264017
this, lowkey babies can be cool, its like a miniature you and you can do cool stuff with it
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Anonymous
6/23/2025, 7:39:38 PM No.33264322
>>33264004 (OP)
Well, if she won't have an abortion, there isn't a single fucking thing you can do to prevent the baby being born. So now you have to decide how you're going to handle it. If you try and keep your distance, is she going to come after you for child support? If not, then I suppose you *could* try and forget the whole thing ever happened. But if you're going to end up supporting the kid financially anyway (which is likely) you might as well actually have a go at being its dad too, don't you think?

You should get a paternity test at some point, though: you're probably not the only guy she's fucking.
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Anonymous
6/23/2025, 8:02:00 PM No.33264386
>>33264004 (OP)
Talk to her. Whether you end up with her, she's going to be the mother of your child. She might be cool, she might be crazy, the hell would we know. She might not even want you in the child's life.

Do not tell any of your female relatives before making a decision.

>>33264322
Seconding this.
Anonymous
6/23/2025, 8:15:14 PM No.33264423
Lmao reap what you sow faggot. Why these hoes choose to fuck around and keep a stranger's child is absolutely beyond me, but you fucked up not pulling out. Pill or not. No contraceptive is guarantee. As the other anon said, a paternity test is your only saving grace here.

>"Maybe" she will go after him for child support
Oh, she will. Why do you think she's keeping it? Lol. Oh well OP, you're of reasonable age. Time to man up and half ass raise another scumbag loser like the parents I guess. You might just do better sneaking abortion pills in her drinks or just pushing her down stairs to avoid another retard popping out.
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Anonymous
6/23/2025, 8:28:08 PM No.33264449
>>33264004 (OP)
Buy a plane ticket to Brazil and go ghost mode
Anonymous
6/23/2025, 8:31:29 PM No.33264458
>>33264024
Toddlers are not cool. They are all of the worst attributes of humans amplified 10x.
Anonymous
6/23/2025, 8:43:10 PM No.33264502
>>33264004 (OP)
8 seconds of pleasure for 18 years of child support. Seems worth it
Anonymous
6/24/2025, 12:14:09 AM No.33265105
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That's why I don't care about not having a GF. I'm not in the position to afford the risk of having a kid/wife or to pay for baby mama child support bullshit. Not to mention the state of modern women just being downright terrible.
Sorry for your loss OP, good luck and godspeed you horny bastard.
Anonymous
6/24/2025, 12:25:34 AM No.33265122
>>33264004 (OP)
Imagine finding out your Dad posted a sad spongebob meme after finding out he got your whore mom pregnant from a casual encounter
Anonymous
6/24/2025, 12:36:44 AM No.33265143
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>>33264004 (OP)
>the mother of your firstborn is a random tinder whore
This should be a wakeup call for you to reevaluate yourself. You are not living a respectable or honorable life. You're 25 and worrying about a baby ruining your life, for what? So you can continue to be a slut with no real responsibilities? Your post reads like a panicked 16 year old. Grow up, change yourself, and raise the child so that it doesn't turn out like its parents.
Anonymous
6/24/2025, 12:41:31 AM No.33265152
i had my first kid when i was 26. it will change your life a lot. it will work better if you guys stay together. but sounds like you guys barely know each other so it would be highly desirable to find a way to abort that baby
Anonymous
6/24/2025, 5:10:06 AM No.33265960
>>33264004 (OP)
She lied to you. She only wants to take you to court and get child support money while she goes and fucks other men, likely to do the same scam
Anonymous
6/24/2025, 9:20:19 AM No.33266501
>>33264004 (OP)
Go and get some lube, cause child support is going to fuck you long and hard. Jokes aside the kid might not be yours, so if she looks for child support or any money ask for a DNA test.
Anonymous
6/24/2025, 9:24:40 AM No.33266505
>>33264004 (OP)
You can go to Thailand and join a buddhist monestary. start a new life
Anonymous
6/24/2025, 9:58:17 AM No.33266527
>>33264004 (OP)
first off, paternity test. Once you now it's 100% yours, then you'll go from there. Baby steps, pun not intended.

Women are dirty whores, never believe them in the first instance
Anonymous
6/25/2025, 3:40:41 AM No.33271011
niggas younger than me out here having kids while i'm a khv
fuck this gay earth
Anonymous
6/25/2025, 3:46:26 AM No.33271037
>he doesn't wear a Jimmy hat when hooking up
Idiot
Anonymous
6/25/2025, 3:48:23 AM No.33271043
>>33264423
>Oh, she will. Why do you think she's keeping it? Lol
Child support isn't some money making scam, wtf are you on about?
Anonymous
6/25/2025, 4:42:23 AM No.33271280
>>33264017
I don't agree with thr "biblical" larp. This isn't how OP has lived his life, it comes across as hypocrisy and I do think kids can tell that you are not being honest.
Anonymous
6/25/2025, 5:15:49 AM No.33271397
Move two towns over.
Anonymous
6/25/2025, 5:37:50 AM No.33271497
>>33264004 (OP)
GET A PATERNITY TEST AND MAKE SURE THE BABY IS REALLY YOURS.