I have recently realized that I hate the idea of having sex with someone who I don’t have strong feelings for. I’m waiting for marriage and want to find a girl who also is or just happens to still be a virgin and would adopt my values.

What I’m trying to get at is I’m not sure what steps to take next. I’m 22 taking classes and working. I have normal hobbies and I’ve become more social lately.

I’ve never really been friends with a girl and I dated for the first time earlier this year for a month. My whole life I get these vivid dreams of doing activities with random girls and it just makes me long for a connection more, like it gives me a nostalgic or sentimental feeling

>>33264243 (OP)
There's going to be few women that meet your criteria. Your two strategies are: becoming a very social person and meeting a high amount people or finding women though niche groups that are more likely to be the type you desire.

I'd recommend continuing your journey of being a more social person. Also, it's fine to long for love, so many popular songs are about just that. Just make sure to never try to replace reality with an illusion.

>>33264243 (OP)
Retarded just go buy a hooker

>>33264365
Thanks for the advice , I’ll be trying to connect more with classmates and coworkers. I also just in general want to make more friends and meet interesting people

>>33264243 (OP)
>I have recently realized that I hate the idea of having sex with someone who I don’t have strong feelings for.
Perfectly reasonable.
>I’m waiting for marriage
Incredibly stupid.
>and want to find a girl who also is or just happens to still be a virgin and would adopt my values.
Literally impossible, unless she is asexual, in which case you're looking at a dead bedroom from the wedding night onward.

>>33264411
I’m christian, and sex honestly isn’t a big deal to me

is being a virgin as a woman really that rare? like it surely cant be.

>>33264243 (OP)
You have admirable goals, but perhaps too restrictive a sense of what constitutes virtue. A woman in your age group whose sexual experience was limited to meaningful emotional relationships should not be automatically rejected.

>>33265186
>A woman in your age group whose sexual experience was limited to meaningful emotional relationships
How many guys would look down at this kind of woman because she's: 1. Not pure 2. Has more relationship experience than the guy because of how the genders are

>>33265186
That would feel like an imbalance in the relationship to me, and I doubt I’m the kind of person they would want to be with in the first place