How do I into women? - /adv/ (#33264357) [Archived: 1432 hours ago]

Anonymous
6/23/2025, 7:50:34 PM No.33264357
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>I have a nice face
>I have good hair
>Good physique because I exercise regularly
>White
>170cm
>I can be social and fun
>Women have given me looks
>Some women get nervous when they talk with me
>Some women have given me signals to hit on them
But how the hell do I even get a woman in the first place? I don't really know what I'll be doing when I actually get to talk with them.
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Anonymous
6/23/2025, 8:03:14 PM No.33264389
>>33264357 (OP)
You don't 'get' a woman. You're either lying out of your ass or socially retarded.
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Anonymous
6/23/2025, 8:04:11 PM No.33264391
>>33264357 (OP)
>>170cm
RIP short king
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Anonymous
6/23/2025, 9:17:49 PM No.33264648
>>33264389
I have no reason to lie. My problem is just that I don't really know how to begin talking to women, could have rephrased.
I was in previous relationships because we've met online and eventually moved onto real life.

>>33264391
>RIP short king
height has never been a problem to me, if anything it filtered out the wrong kind of women and I moved on without even caring
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Anonymous
6/23/2025, 9:49:13 PM No.33264723
>>33264648
Well in that case, it's contextual. I usually use environment because it's our mutual similar factor. Where do you usually meet most women?
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Anonymous
6/23/2025, 10:07:25 PM No.33264777
>>33264357 (OP)
>>I can be social and fun
>can be

uh oh

>I don't really know what I'll be doing when I actually get to talk with them.
talk about what you think is interesting, and what they think is interesting

Ideally you go to places and events where you can meet women who already have one or two things in common with you, otherwise you just have to pretend real hard to be interested in what they have to say.
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Anonymous
6/23/2025, 10:36:43 PM No.33264849
>>33264357 (OP)
I just can't care about the flirting phase
Anonymous
6/23/2025, 10:50:29 PM No.33264882
>>33264723
gym, events, work (not coworkers), hotels

>>33264777
My problem is that I don't know how to properly approach without making myself look like a bitch and making the conversation boring.
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Anonymous
6/23/2025, 10:56:46 PM No.33264896
>>33264882
>My problem is that I don't know how to properly approach without making myself look like a bitch and making the conversation boring.
Like I said I only ever go to where I'm in my element and a girl will like be wearing some band shirt, ask her if she's from around here, what she's studying or does for a living, always try to branch off what she's saying.
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Anonymous
6/23/2025, 11:01:23 PM No.33264911
>>33264896
Okay that makes sense. How about cold approaching a girl that sort of appears somewhere without really wearing anything that stands out like a band tshirt? like at gym, if a girl for example has nice hair or legs.
Anonymous
6/23/2025, 11:02:50 PM No.33264917
>>33264882
If you're sociable and fun you should have no problem talking to women imo? Keep it lighthearted, especially if you know them.