People don't respect me - /adv/ (#33264992) [Archived: 740 hours ago]

Anonymous
6/23/2025, 11:29:10 PM No.33264992
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I'm always the butt of jokes in friends groups and I can sense people pick on me often. It happens with many people already and they make fun of things they don't with other guys.

I don't know if it's because I join people that don't respect me or people sense they can treat me more harshly. Any way I can avoid this? Every time I stand my ground I fell as rude, party pooper and a chud.
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Anonymous
6/23/2025, 11:55:01 PM No.33265052
You’re a loser. Many such cases.
Just don’t be a loser. Stop going to 4chan. Get good at something. Make a lot of money. Fuck hot bitches.
You know what to do.
Anonymous
6/24/2025, 12:06:20 AM No.33265084
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>>33264992 (OP)
more than likely bros are just doing cheeky banter with you, with you quietly being hyper sensitive to it and then being an erupting volcano once in a blue moon

Of course there's a tiny element of bullying in cheeky banter - it's fun to make fun of someone, especially right to their face and they sit there and take it - but you just gotta play the banter game of where if they call you gay virgin or something then you call them fat with a small dick or whatever, say that you were too busy having sex with their mom, get creative and have fun
Anonymous
6/24/2025, 12:13:46 AM No.33265103
>>33264992 (OP)
They're not your friends
Time to get new ones
Anonymous
6/24/2025, 12:36:01 AM No.33265140
>>33264992 (OP)
Anon the same happened to me. For me, it was because of being too nice combined with fake friends.
Anonymous
6/24/2025, 1:23:26 AM No.33265280
>>33264992 (OP)
Unleash your wrath, but don’t just be a fag about stuff.
Anonymous
6/24/2025, 2:31:10 AM No.33265559
>>33264992 (OP)
Stand up for yourself be an asshole you will most likely get respect
Anonymous
6/24/2025, 2:55:30 AM No.33265634
>>33264992 (OP)
Yeah i was always the butt of jokes ij my friend group, and not in a friendly banter way, but in a mean, mocking way because they knew i wouldn't snap back since i really don't have it in me to be mean and dish out low blows. I couldn't bring myself to be an asshole back to those guys so i just cut my losses and now i have no friends, but at least i'm not getting mistreated by so-called "friends".
You either stoop down to their level and become a rude assholeor avoid them, because for some reason most people get off on being mean to each other. Especially if they smell blood and realise you won't retaliate or have principles they can exploit
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Anonymous
6/24/2025, 10:06:40 PM No.33268967
Bump
Anonymous
6/24/2025, 10:33:20 PM No.33269113
>>33264992 (OP)
Hit the gym, get buff. People will still talk shit about you but it will be behind your back at least. There's no way to completely get normies to stop talking shit.
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Anonymous
6/24/2025, 10:47:31 PM No.33269212
>>33269113
I go to the gym and I'm stronger than most people I meet. But I still have the basedjak belly so it doesn't matter, and it's taking me a lot of effort trying to get rid of it all together.

I feel it's true, people respect you less when you are overweight. The thing is that sliming down is veeeeery slow and I'm a constant fight against myself each day. Oh well.
Anonymous
6/24/2025, 10:49:16 PM No.33269226
>>33264992 (OP)
you're either mentally normal or lack muscle. work out, or act crazy.
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Anonymous
6/24/2025, 11:18:28 PM No.33269406
>>33265634
But it also happens with things like online friends or sites where people don't see me. There must be something I'm saying or the way I talk that make people feel free to treat me like this. Is not only me being fat.
>>33269226
I already work out and I don't want to act crazy. I don't like being rude.