how do i stop my gf from bringing up an instance from the past she didnt like? how and when will she resolve it?

It means she is going to leave you but hasn't figured out how yet. I guess there is a chance you salvage things but why would you want to? This is how I felt about my ex. I knew how to make the relationship more peaceful but ultimately I didnt think it was worth it or that she deserved it so I let the collapse of things continue for several months-years
>t. Guy who knows

>>33266274 (OP)
How the fuck should we know? You think we have a read-out of her thoughts?

>>33266274 (OP)
You don't.
And if you keep having emotions about it she'll dump you.
Get your shit in order

>>33266344
we’ve been officially dating for almost a year now but she keeps bringing up one time during our initial talking/meeting stage, i thought the cashier that served us looked like nayeon from the kpop group twice since we both were into kpop. she didnt think so but i told her she will believe me if we got closer to the cashier again. we got back in line to order a coffee and i thought it would be nice to tell the cashier she looks pretty like the singer i mentioned.

at the time my gf seemed like she was playfully shocked i could do something she thinks as borderline cheating, but she still believes it to this day. she mentioned it barely acceptable since we weren’t official yet she says she hasnt felt like its resolved, so she always brings it up time to time even though ive never done something like objectively seeing another girl as pretty/attractive.

what am i doing wrong here?

>>33266274 (OP)
gf?
Oh you mean the fleshlight punching bag vacuum cleaner dishwasher?
I dunno bro
Maybe if it bleeds...you can kill it?