I started dating my bf after my 19th birthday (this year); we met on 4chan, and he came to see me. He met my mom, and it was nice, but he literally won't send me pictures of himself. I know he's shy, but I am too. We literally shower together. I don't understand. I'm not even asking for nudes; I don't like seeing nudes. I just want him to video call me or send pictures of himself doing silly stuff or cooking something or childhood pictures. I am his gf, and I don't feel that way. Why do I have to ask? But he won't even do it. I will understand if we never meet each other, but we are dating; he saw me naked, and I did too. I wonder if he even views me as his gf because he's the one that came to me at first. I kept my distance, and then we just clicked, and he asked me things no one cared to ask. I was happy, and once he even said I need to lose weight, I was confused because I'm 154 cm, and I'm a petite person. It hurt my feelings... and he will make me feel hurt, and I wonder if he cares. I don't understand. I really love him, and I try my best. Since it's long distance, I'll make ingredients for him to cook and draw good goodluck notes with tigers because he loves tigers. I just want him to love me... And he knows I have BPD too, and it's like he’s making it worse. What could make him not want to video call or send pictures of him doing stuff? He's not a bad bf at times... He's just strange, and once he got drunk and cried to me, he said, I'm too sweet, but it was out of the blue. I don't understand, and it's stuck in my head… And he put a picture of me on his phone screen, and I asked him if he still had it, and he said, ”No, I took it off; I want people to see me as an incel, and I made him a cute heart box, I brought him his favourite can, and I made him a bracelet, and he took it off. :(. I feel like I'm putting in more, and he's also numb too, so it's hard for him to feel stuff.Thanks for reading :3

>>33266738 (OP)
Holy fuck, what a wall of text kek

Only read:
>we met on 4chan
>I have BPD
End your relationship, now

Oh the part about me giving him his favourite “can” sorry i meant candy:D

Yeah strange i guess

bro...

you're in a relationship
with him

stop assuming he doesen't love you over these nothing burgers and just trust that nigga

as for the pictures
why the fuck do you feel so entitled
>b-but i'm his GF he's supposed to

it's litterally not that deep
he just doesen't like taking pics

i don't
i know a bunch of other guys who don't

typical white woman shit right here

>>33266760
Im not white and im not entitled i also dont like taking pictures and its not that he doesnt do anything i do everything…I put too much into everything.Ofc your gonna take his side…He read my post before he met be he know how i am,some you guys want a gf but when she love too much and just want the BASIC stuff,a call some communication…its too much.What am i doing wrong im patient i try to be there as much as i can loving like a dog always but its my fault

>>33266769
>petite figure
>bpd
>non white???

femanon what species are you?

>>33266783
Im from the Caribbean:) and species is strange I'm human :)

>>33266738 (OP)
I have a hunch that he's insecure about how his face looks in the selfie cam. A lot of people look terrible in that lens, especially if you don't know how to anglemaxx, it can really get to some people. These cameras will turn decent looking or even handsome guys into picrel

> 33266852
Yes thats true..I just wanted him to communicate.i didn’t like that he lied to me saying he doesn’t have pictures when i clearly saw pictures on his phone:) ill take anything he knows how i am cause i kiss him all over his face and tell him he’s handsome all the time cause when i look at him i see a handsome man i see no flaws.He said he will try so ill take that.I hate cameras myself i tape my camera up cause i just hate it so i get it with the cameras.Thanks :)

>>33266908
Oh dear you sound so incredibly borderline OP.

>>33266738 (OP)
>eye watering wall of text
I w;on't read it.

>>33266738 (OP)
>BPD
End it. I pray for him.