Have any of you ever been in a relationship where you're just not really feeling it?
Where there's nothing bad enough that warrants a breakup, but you're just going through the motions out of familiarity and because you feel like you have some obligation towards that person?
How did that get resolved?

>>33267021 (OP)
It's called marriage.

>>33267021 (OP)
you're just not with a person that is right for you
that's normal
break up

>>33267021 (OP)
In one right now. It's frustrating and I overthink it too much. But she loves me, and does everything for me. Even if I was more into it, any other girl would likely just bring problems or not provide as much. Probably better off just to stay, the long term benefits outweigh "feelings"

>>33267021 (OP)
Yes
>how does it get resolved
You break up. There doesn't have to be a bad guy. Don't sit there and weigh like she has to deserve it or something. It doesn't work like that. Youre unhappy, and shes also getting a shitty deal by being with a partner who doesnt even like her that way. It isnt fair for everyone at this point. End it, move on, everyone will be happier for it eventually.

>>33267173
That sounds like ass dude. She "provides" for you? What does that mean?

>>33267215
She is so in love with me it's unreal. She is always there for me, goes out of her way to take care of me, support me, express love to me. She would do anything for me. She cooks for me, cleans for me, joins in on any activity or idea without complaint. We've never had a fight, she's never thrown a fit, she makes my life peaceful and stable and calm and warm.

And that aside no I don't really feel anything but I'm not retarded enough to go back to dating mean, bitchy, selfish, arrogant, nagging, jealous whores again like the 4+ girlfriends before her were, despite "feeling" for them

>>33267521
She feels that way about you because you feel that way about her. don't worry about it and do what you want.

>>33267021 (OP)
Most people have experienced this. The question is whether it's a short-term thing you can pull out of, or if it's going to be like this from now on. If the latter, you should break up.

>>33272421
What can be done to pull out of it? To change my mindset and appreciate more, dismiss the doubts and intrusive thoughts?