I want to know if I'm an incel and how to change it.
I have never been in a relationship before and no girl has ever liked me back so I would be what you consider "khhv"
I am autistic and not very attractive
Most people just look at me and think I'm beta nice guy
Not depressed and I don't want to have a relationship for sexual reasons. I want a relationship because I think I just want someone I can actually express myself to and would love me for being me. I constantly have to mask around others and so I don't really have interesting things to say. I know this is narcissistic but I would want someone I could experience things with and where there would be some sort of mutual attraction around. Maybe I would like a best friend but its hard for men to get this.
I ask if I'm an incel because it is genuinely really hard. I get mad at myself and go "Well if I was this this and this then they would like me" and find myself agreeing with the incel perspectives I see on instagram and twitter.
How do I reverse course? I'm trying to get better and improve but its super hard.

NO ONE FUCKING CARES
NO ONE CARES IF YOU ARE, NO ONE CARES IF YOU AREN’T
NOBODY CARES!!!!!!
STOP WITH THE MENIAL BULLSHIT!!!! TOUCH GRASS!!!!!!!

>>33268737
You're saying that if I told other people these same concerns they wouldn't judge me and shrug their shoulders? I asked here because I'm afraid of asking anyone this anywhere else...

>>33268776
I think he said that you sound too much of a self-absorbed prick who ends up perpetuating the very same problems you complained about in your post. For how long you tried to solve your problems by yourself in real life before making this thread?

>>33268786
I want to say around a little more than 6 months I have tried to communicate with people better and change the way I look but even outside of the relationship longing I am doing something wrong. People find me still weird… I am doing something wrong