Thread 33269376 - /adv/ [Archived: 809 hours ago]

Anonymous
6/24/2025, 11:13:36 PM No.33269376
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Anons what should I do about my past social failures? I am 24m and I've barely been able to make friends my entire life. I went thru a self improvement phase since I chose to take responsibility for this in my late teens, but I sort of got nowhere with it, and stop putting forth an effort when I got frustrated and bitter.

I'm trying to finish off my undergrad now, going to graduate next year, but I don't know what to do. I'm facing a future with no meaning.
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Anonymous
6/24/2025, 11:20:14 PM No.33269420
>>33269376 (OP)
So your main problem is being able to make friends, then?

Since you're in college, I'd recommend joining some clubs. It's pretty much a guarantee of people with similar interests
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Anonymous
6/24/2025, 11:23:37 PM No.33269444
>>33269420
>It's pretty much a guarantee of people with similar interests

My personality is extremely unattractive and people take a strong dislike to me instantly.
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Anonymous
6/24/2025, 11:26:20 PM No.33269465
>>33269376 (OP)
>Anons what should I do about my past social failures?
Nothing. As you said, they're in the past now.
>I went thru a self improvement phase...but I sort of got nowhere with it
Self-improvement for it's own sake is basically masturbation
>I'm facing a future with no meaning.
Just like many zoomers(me included), but it seems to be a middle/higher-class thing. People our age for third world shitholes are trying to not starve to death, or don't killed in civil wars, etc.
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Anonymous
6/24/2025, 11:30:35 PM No.33269502
>>33269465
>Self-improvement for it's own sake is basically masturbation

No? If you are in a situation where you're unlikeable, then there is something to be done.
Anonymous
6/25/2025, 1:21:41 AM No.33270285
>>33269444
Oh well then I guess you should just give up and never try ever.

Do it anyway, try anyway, this is 100% a 'you miss all the shots you don't take' situation
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Anonymous
6/25/2025, 1:24:43 AM No.33270309
>>33270285
>Oh well then I guess you should just give up and never try ever.

I am just telling you my experience. It seems like just how I am, is that I end everything in a negative outcome.
Anonymous
6/25/2025, 6:15:47 AM No.33271664
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>>33269376 (OP)
>24
It's over! You know the deal.. walker and adult diapers.
Anonymous
6/25/2025, 4:26:28 PM No.33273036
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>>33269465
>Self-improvement for it's own sake is basically masturbation
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