Theres a girl that wants to go on a date with me, and a girl who im interested in but im friends with.

Plan is to go out with the girl thats interested in me, just to see what happens. Then ask the girl im friends with out.

Advice? Also how do i make it clear that the date with my friend isnt as friends but that i want more than that? Without being a nerd that says it outright

>>33271830 (OP)
If it goes well just ask "is this a date?"
If it is going well she will smile. likely say " is it?" (She won't make it a thing no matter how she answers)
You can just say "I would like it to be" then you need to schedule a real date that night.

Also it can be obvious you are on a date even when it isn't planned as one. If you hold hands or go sit and talk with no other attractions than it's a date.

>>33271858
Our language doesnt have a phrase like is this a date to ask, and im not sure just sitting and talking makes it a date

>>33271921
just grab her hand or go for a kiss when it feels right
asking is kind of awkward

>>33271944
Id like to say i'd do that but that sounds WAY too fucking scary, there's gotta be something lighter to check first

>>33271944
> Asking is awkward
Might be the whole point

OP
What fucking language can't you ask a question like that?

>>33271973
you can work your way up with some light touches, but grabbing her hand is about the lightest it gets

>>33271974
Spanish, theres no socially acceptable way to differentiate between a romantic hangout and a friendly one. Only way is to literally spell it out

>>33271993
Yeah.
Say "does this feel romantic?" I'm not you translator but don't say it as a question but as an offer.
Its rhetorical.

>>33272084
that sounds autistic

>>33271830 (OP)
make your intentions clear early and if possible try to make things official again earlier than later
act deep and mysterious
tell her friends you like her
if she friendzones you dont pull back or press forward but accept it and work to slowly change it
talk about your future together
adequately explain yourself and your actions
expect adult behavior and keep a degree of seriousness

>>33271830 (OP)
>Advice?
Don't go on a date with someone you already know you aren't interested in. Imagine how you'd feel if you found out a woman you really like was using you as as a "practice date" before going out with someone she actually wants.

>>33271993
just ask her in english. ez.

>>33272084
Yeah don't follow this advice. It's bad.

>>33272093
It sounds autistic because you read it how you would say it.
>>33272987
You have no game.

Just relax and go on a date. If you feel superconnected you can try to approach with kiss. Otherwise just wait until the next date. If she still wants to go on the next date then she is probably interested in you. Sometimes it doesn't matter was the date good or bad. If you don't feel she is interested then most likely she is a lost case, just forget about her, don't chase. Girls make their minds very quickly and it is hard to change that first impression. Most likely the girl you friend with already has some impression of you and most likely is not positive. Check it quick and move on.

>>33273534
Believe what you want. OP shouldn't take advice from someone who sounds like they're trying to be an autistic Romeo.

>Does this feel romantic?
>Does this feel sexy?
>Does this feel humourous?

You're trying way too hard.

>>33271944
Straight to nigger jail. Rip anon.