Here's some advice - /adv/ (#33272760) [Archived: 955 hours ago]

Anonymous
6/25/2025, 1:56:58 PM No.33272760
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Therapy is for women and children. As men, we must take full ownership of our lives. Realize that no one really cares about you outside of your mother, and even that isn't guaranteed. This doesn't mean you should be discouraged towards connecting with people, but you must understand that people will only deal with you at first when you provide some type of utility. Through cultivation of a charming personality, and displays of selfless offerings(helping someone move furniture/helping an old lady with her lawn work/etc) you gain trust and respect. Trust and respect is how a man knows he is loved. If you were someone else, what would you trust yourself with? Are you good at a skill/service? Are you good at listening and keeping information to yourself? Do you keep your physical appearance in a respectable manner? If someone asks a friend or family member about your character, what would they be able to say about you?
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Anonymous
6/25/2025, 2:34:32 PM No.33272817
>>33272760 (OP)
This was some good food for thought, thanks OP
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6/25/2025, 2:39:55 PM No.33272824
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>Through cultivation of a charming personality, and displays of selfless offerings(helping someone move furniture/helping an old lady with her lawn work/etc) you gain trust and respect.

gay
Anonymous
6/25/2025, 2:56:20 PM No.33272845
>>33272760 (OP)
That was indeed, some advice. Pertinent advice.
But the question remains. Can every man sort himself out by his own accord?
If so, your advice has no utility. If not, therapy may benefit some. Those that don't have the capability of self-reflection, self-encouragement, empathy, patience and critical thinking among other traits.
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Anonymous
6/26/2025, 4:09:03 AM No.33275749
>>33272845
>Can every man sort himself out by his own accord?

think you missed the point

no one gives a shit about you

therefore no other option than to sort yourself out

retard

>If so, your advice has no utility.

idk why but i can tell you're fat irl
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6/26/2025, 4:27:09 AM No.33275819
>>33272760 (OP)
Yeah
Anonymous
6/26/2025, 4:30:22 AM No.33275835
>>33272760 (OP)
>women
Therapy is for the weak in general. Wasting your god damned time and hard earned money to talk to someone is useless and wasteful. Everything a therapist tells you for $500 a month is free on google. Hell, maybe even AI is better than a therapist.
Anonymous
6/26/2025, 7:09:44 AM No.33276655
>>33272760 (OP)
That's pretty lame advice and hurting men.

Men should be able to express their feelings.
Anonymous
6/26/2025, 10:18:52 AM No.33277242
>>33272760 (OP)
This is the mindset of dudes who end up blowing their own brains out
Anonymous
6/26/2025, 10:24:12 AM No.33277250
>>33275749
NTA.
Holy reddit spacing!
Anonymous
6/26/2025, 10:26:02 AM No.33277253
>>33272760 (OP)
Trad advice is very good for people that still live in an older world, but you have to believe there is a reward for this in the new world, and you won't just be discarded with all the rest. That would be genuinely helpful advice, a way to keep your morale high in the modern world.
Anonymous
6/26/2025, 10:59:33 AM No.33277290
>>33272760 (OP)
the world you were born in is gone, old man
>just help ppl move and mow lawns bro
laughable
"being helpful" doesn't gain you much trust or respect when you're competing with the state
Anonymous
6/26/2025, 11:00:42 AM No.33277294
Nah I'm a selfish waste of resources and life is good lol