>>33283588Do you know what a kegel is? There's a difference in the feeling of feeling really really good (that's an orgasm) and the feeling of ejaculation. Three things here. Feeling good, then feeling really really good (the orgasm, or "I'm about to cum") and then ejaculation itself.
They don't often happen consecutively, they happen concurrently, in varying degrees. Since you said 1 to 2 minutes. You have to understand that you are completely unaware of when any of these feelings are actually happening.
It will take you a lot of fucking practice for you to identify these feelings. I recommend you practice vaginal sex with your girlfriend, slowly, and pay very close attention to what's going on. The only thing you should do right now is stop when you think ejaculation is going to happen.
Remember, you're being hit before you even realize you're been hit. So you have to see the hits coming and avoid them. Start with the "start stop technique" and then as you get familiar with the feelings, then begin using kegels (gently) to keep the orgasms from turning into ejaculations.
The more you understand these feelings, and the stronger your muscles are, the longer you will be able to last, the faster you will be able to go (without stopping), and the more pleasure you will be able to experience.