>go on third date with girl
>she has made a handful of positive remarks about her ex
>point this out and ask why the relationship ended
>"oh he was actually a great guy but I eventually got fed up with (describes several personality issues most of which I also have)

Well shit. Do I end it now, or step up and try to be the guy she thinks I am?

>>33272898 (OP)
You won't do this, but you should absolutely end this now. Especially before you get attached and end up hurt. The fact that she's even bringing up her ex this early is a massive red flag.

>>33272898 (OP)
>>33272937
Agree with this comment. End it now.

>>33272898 (OP)
she’s still obsessed with him and she’s thinking about him even when she looks at you
Dodge the bullet.

>>33272898 (OP)
>end it now
wait til you fuck her at least

end or accept your fate