My daughter, who is turning 15 later this year, I just discovered to have an instagram account where she has been posting provocative images. Like, as in way too provocative. Pictures of her in lace panties that I didn't even know she had. Hand bra type stuff. Don't bother asking for the instagram, it's private now and I deleted the images myself.

Here's another problem. Turns out my wife bought her the panties from Victoria Secret. I fucking lost it, I screamed at her for an hour while she just shrugged and said it isn't a big deal. I'm still seething at the idea of a sex appeal store selling panties to a 14 year old, or a website allowing a 14 year old to spread photos of herself in said underwear.

Look I don't want to be "that dad" that oppresses his kid. To an extent, I don't really care what she does with people her own age. But I think today's age there are so many fucking pedos everywhere and everyone just wants a piece of whatever ass they can get, nobody gives a shit about protecting teenagers. When I was 14 I was trading pokemon cards and kissed my first girl. Nowadays 14 year olds are stripping down on tiktok to "cigarettes after sex" and flirting with their teachers.

Am I overreacting? I have been ignoring my wife for days and she maintains that even the instagram photos are fine. If I really try I can get past the panties even though I think 14 is still WAY too young. But the instagram photos are making me question my marriage.

>>33273289 (OP)
You did good, anon. A beacon of hope in a world of pedo kikes.

>>33273289 (OP)

do you live in a small town? maybe you can get a sheriff to scare her straight posting obscene content on the internet

>>33273327
having a preteen growing up in a small town/rural area is easily one of the worst decisions a well-intended parent can make for their kid and only serves to act as the reason this happened to begin with

>>33273289 (OP)
It's hard to come to terms with, but when girls reach the age where they realise their looks open doors for them, get them attention they didn't get before they will chase that feeling of acceptance and admiration like crack. It's not til they get a bit older that they realise that attraction does not equal respect.

The bigger issue here in my opinion is your unreceptive wife. You *have* to present a united front to a teenager, because they're smart enough to pick up on and exploit any disagreement between parents over the merits of an issue one has raised. You really need to turn the screw on your wife. Show her the way nonces trade teen pics on here like it's nothing. Shock her into believing you that racy stuff on social media *will* end up in the hands of rotters.

Get her fucking told, man

I remember being her age and the other girls at school were doing this but my parents wouldn't let me. I was angry until my dad sat and explained that men are evil and he knows because he is a man. My dad treated my mum with respect and love for so much more than what she looked like- so I saw the right way to earn love and attention. Before I noticed this though I didn't get what my dad meant until I started to see boys our age assault and blackmail girls who posted this stuff. sometimes being ultra promiscuous is a sign of past abuse so pls watch out for her. Explain how this can lead to exploitation and abuse and the cruel horrible way that young men see women, it will feel very harsh but she will thank you for looking out for her. Young girls are a lot more optimistic and pure and don't realise the risk until we grow into women.

>>33273289 (OP)
She probably fucks negroes behind your back since 12 like many of these little whores nowadays. Post a pic of her, I bet she has that bbc look on her face. Nasty whore.

>>33273442
>>33273476
Show your wife this post, OP
That's the audience on public socials

>>33273289 (OP)
I won't bump bait threads by people who pretend to be married with teenaged children and that somehow 4chan is their go-to source for parenting advice & marriage counselling.

Especially when it seems like it's lifted straight from reddit.

>>33273303
This board is full of normies, they wouldn't know.

>>33273500
I don't care if you believe it retard, I'm 32 not 52. I was posting mudkips probably before you were born
>>33273442
I agree, I would love to have a united front on this issue. Normally we do, but my girl has always been a really great kid. And this doesn't make her a bad one, I just think she needs to be guided. The problem is my wife is very naive. She was never assaulted, groomed raped or anything. She's the "it'll never happen to us" type. There are a lot of scenarios where being laid back can be helpful, especially with someone like me who can fly off the handle easily. I was thinking maybe I could show her the "followers" list. I was just looking at it and there were several pakis and adult men following my daughter. Maybe that will get her to see that you can't be so naive with this kind of thing. Thanks anon

>>33273420
right, because everyone knows if you remove a teen from its natural habitat, the city, it will whither and die in matter of weeks. OP, how are you the first dad to ever raise a kid in a small town rural environment? Werent you taught better? No one else has ever done this in the history of humanity, and for good reason. You've doomed your daughter to a life of crackwhoredom and it's all because she isn't surrounded by browns in gangs, loud traffic, pollution, and 24 hour convenience stores where she belongs

>>33273289 (OP)
And to think people call me a weirdo for saying:
>as if a preteen or teen can’t give consent to a pedophile 30+ years old
>Alicia Navarro for example

>>33273558
>passive aggressive faggotry
a: suburbs exist
b: you're being a retarded faggot because you don't understand that kids use social media as a way to socialize if there aren't places to be / areas to hang around where they would meet people, hence why this happened to OP

>>33273544
>32 year old father
>15 year old daughter
You were 17 years old and had a kid. Your daughter is acting no different than you, dipshit. Deal with it. What a damn embarrassment for passing your shitty personality onto your kid.

>>33273608
Man you love to say the most retarded shit don't you? I'm a step father, I married my wife 5 years ago. Go jack off to some tranny porn or something retard.

>>33273544
>I don't care if you believe it retard, I'm 32 not 52. I was posting mudkips probably before you were born
why would you ask 4chan for parenting advice
I'm older than you, but the majority of the posters are like 20 year olds

>>33273627
Not true at all check the demographics, also I don't believe you need to have experience in a field to have something worthwhile to say about it. In other words a good idea is a good idea.

>>33273606
kids that have come before you have figured it out. Kids existed before suburbs. Imagine being so confidently wrong about your retarded insistence on setting over literally every other possible factor. Inane

>>33273631
yeah man let's ask the internet virgin incels who are your daughter's age for parenting/marriage advice

>>33273640
>using the past where people were inbred as an example
>unironically shilling for this shit
quit acting like a retarded faggot.

>>33273620

> I'm a step father

lol

Lmao, even. That's not your daughter, she has daddy issues and doesn't respect you enough where your presence in her life stops her from whoring out. Nothing you can do and it's not your problem

>>33273620
I don’t care if you’re a step father or not, unlovable nigger. You’re still failing that whore and it’s your fault for not being good enough. Kill her and yourself by going to the Mexican cartel. That’s fix everything, including your IQ.

>>33273668
>That’ll

>>33273620
Lol I just broke up with my lady for this same type of shit. Step father shit too, 7 yrs. You are not her dad and your wife never had any intention of letting you in completely. Enjoy hell.

>>33273620
>step father
not your real kid retard, your mistake.

>>33273620
Suffer for allowing yourself to care for another man’s kid, retarded ass cunt. You’re the last person to call anyone a retard.

>>33273620
The woman is always going to put HER kid above you. Like, no shit she isn't respecting what you say and going behind you buying her the whore shit. She is one, and you're a cuck. Now it all makes sense. Lead with that next time. That's your answer. You are not her dad and she is not your daughter. Enjoy watching the dumpster fire that is someone else's daughter's teenage phase with no control over it. Damn dude

>>33273650
astronomically braindead prancing fairy homo, what other example do you need to prove you're a drooling invalid? Keep whatever hateboner for the boonies you have in your dilated leaking cockpocket. Topic is a universally modern teen issue and is apt to happen regardless of the rurality of her living happenstance. I rightfully called you out for being a dumb tripfag nigger making irrelevant claims and you can't handle that so you're shidding and pissing like a genetic failure to futilely avoid feeling so utterly BTFO'd

>>33273289 (OP)
>Am I overreacting?
Massively.

>>33273650
>implying you're less inbred than when there were fewer total generations of humans

>>33273620
>”you love to say the most retarded shit don't you”
>admits to being a step “father”
>everyone is clowning on you
You ate your own shit and everyone is laughing at you. Whatchu gotta say now, little man? Lmao

>>33273289 (OP)
ignore these retards OP. They don't know what the fuck they're talking about, lashing out because you have something they can't fathom: responsibility of fatherhood.
like another anon said, start in on the wife. She has to back you on this otherwise your daughter will get mixed messages and she will be encouraged to keep hiding stuff from you.
You and your wife need to agree on matters of ministering her online activities. She can't be allowed to spread lewds, and eventually nudes of herself that young. Also tell her she's already guilty of production of AND distribution of CSAM. And that anyone who is caught complicit in encouraging her to do so is also guilty
She needs to know she's too young, and the 4 years until she's not may seem like forever to her, but by the time shes 18 she will have it figured out that it's trashy to do that shit anyway. Teach her to respect her body and her image, and show her what happens to girls who are allowed to do that whore shit. Many many news headlines of tolls paid

>>33273289 (OP)
i am going to fuck your daughter

Op is a pussy and left lmao

>>33273289 (OP)
guess what happens next

>>33273620
>I'm a step father
Why are you trying to interfere with your wife's child's life then? What does her father have to say about it? Maybe you can ask him what should be done about his daughter.

>>33273289 (OP)
Explain how posting those images make us feel a certain way but that the impact of those images, while hard to know now, aren’t worth the excitement that you feel by posting them. We all do things for reasons and how something makes us feel is one of the major reasons. Kids will be kids and I certainly did dumb things when I was young.

>>33273620
Seriously kys faggot. You don't deserve to live.

>>33273289 (OP)
You're overreacting. Teenagers do shit like this, and coming down too hard on her runs the risk of fucking her up in various ways:
1: reverse psychology might make her more into it in an obsessive and unhealthy way
2: again like it or not teenagers are sexual and there's nothing you can do about that. She belongs to herself and has to manifest it however she wants.
Basically, I would really strongly warn her that "I don't really care what she does with people her own age. But I think today's age there are so many fucking pedos everywhere and everyone just wants a piece of whatever ass they can get" i.e. "you didn't do anything wrong, but be *really* careful about older men"

>>33273289 (OP)
Just tell her the truth

Appearances matter, and if you lead with your body/sex then you'll attract men who wish to use you for sex

You're not oppressing her by telling her how it is

>>33273289 (OP)
Bro it's over you got a slut wife and a slut daughter
You fucked up
There is no advice

You sperging about victoria secret panties is the weird part here. It is just a lingerie store with reputable quality, women gotta get their panties somewhere and women prefer wearing fancy decorative stuff until they get tired of it regardless of if it attracts predators or not.
And no when you were young you just werent part of all that stuff. As a woman I can attest that at 11 most were already smoking, drinking and doing god knows what in those toilets. 14 sounds about right time to start tipping your those in that direction. You can forbid it and all: for now, but its gonna happen eventually anyways, and its better when her developmental milestones are aligned with her social circles in terms of timing. Your main concern in the current day and age should be that she wont ends up a reclusive neet that will demand providing from you two until the day you die.

>>33273289 (OP)
If your daughter's just sending them privately to other teenagers her age it's not that big a deal, just a unique form of self expression. Sending them to adults or young kids is an issue though.

I thank god every day I only have sons.
they'll have problems of their own but at least I don't have to worry about this kind of horrorshow
good luck OP, you're going to need it

>>33273620
Not your daughter, you fucking pussy and you know something? if that were my biological daughter and some young pussy like you came into her life talking like this about her, i'd literally chop your body up with my machete. I'd Jihadi John your fucking ass. Now do yourself a favor and never post on 4chan again. And leave that girl the fuck alone. Or else.

>>33273289 (OP)
People like you should not have children and dont blame your child or anyone else cuz this is your fault

>>33273289 (OP)
16 is legal is completely legal for anyone older in many states maybe even your own

>>33273620
>I'm a step father, I married my wife 5 years ago
LOL

>>33273620
why not just wait 3 years then date her?

>>33273289 (OP)
>Pictures of her in lace panties
>Hand bra type stuff

Was the tugging worth it?

>>33273289 (OP)
lmao after all she's a woman anon ergo a whore. same applies to your wife hence why she handled whore clothes to your daughter

>>33286747
also she's 14 not like she's 8 retard. she already can get pregnant so she's ready for the cock carrousel

>>33273303
This image is more relevant here than it was when it was originally posted.

Your wife might genuinely enjoy that your daughter is doing this. Like a vicarious enjoyment. She gets to relive her youth.

>>33287095
Mhmm. "That's my sexy daughter achieving self-fulfillment in the way we women do :D"

Best thing you can do is marry her off to a worthy man such as myself