Anonymous
6/26/2025, 2:49:41 AM No.33275476
has your father passed away?
how did you deal with it? any tips?
how did you deal with it? any tips?
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Anonymous
6/26/2025, 3:01:02 AM No.33275502
>>33275476 (OP)
My father was an addict and stole from my sisters, I barely knew him and didn't care to.
I cried at his funeral for the man I once knew, and now I'm glad he's dead so I don't have to knock his last few teeth out.
My father was an addict and stole from my sisters, I barely knew him and didn't care to.
I cried at his funeral for the man I once knew, and now I'm glad he's dead so I don't have to knock his last few teeth out.
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Anonymous
6/26/2025, 3:45:25 AM No.33275618
>>33275476 (OP)
We saw it coming, it had to happen and was a release in the end. I almost cried a few times. I broke down a month later.
Mostly I got healthy and remember to be better
We saw it coming, it had to happen and was a release in the end. I almost cried a few times. I broke down a month later.
Mostly I got healthy and remember to be better
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Anonymous
6/26/2025, 3:52:46 AM No.33275663
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Anonymous
6/26/2025, 3:56:32 AM No.33275684
>>33275663
Firstly, he wasn't suffering anymore so on that level it was less sad than his suffering.
Secondly me and my brother are tuff guys, we delt with it by operating on what needed to be done.
I guess it took time for it to land.
Firstly, he wasn't suffering anymore so on that level it was less sad than his suffering.
Secondly me and my brother are tuff guys, we delt with it by operating on what needed to be done.
I guess it took time for it to land.
Anonymous
6/26/2025, 3:59:09 AM No.33275692
>>33275663
Sometimes it just does. Was similar for me too, but also i had a lot of mixed emotions about it
Sometimes it just does. Was similar for me too, but also i had a lot of mixed emotions about it
Anonymous
6/26/2025, 4:00:23 AM No.33275698
I watched my father die when i was 15, it was hard because he died young and i had to live with my mom, who hasn't had to work a job since i was born. Saying my last words to him was the only time i cried about it, because my father raised me to be a man. i get through it by being grateful for the time we had and the lessons he taught me. I look at people without fathers and am thankful i ended up better than most. lmk if u need any help anon
Anonymous
6/26/2025, 4:03:16 AM No.33275721
>>33275663
it took me a week before it felt real, one day i came back home to an empty house and that is when it hit.
it took me a week before it felt real, one day i came back home to an empty house and that is when it hit.
Anonymous
6/26/2025, 10:30:23 AM No.33277259
>>33275476 (OP)
Condolences. I think you need to somewhat focus on what needs to be done now, but of course you can mourn and grieve.
>>33275502
That might be easier to part with, yes. Mine was the opposite.
Condolences. I think you need to somewhat focus on what needs to be done now, but of course you can mourn and grieve.
>>33275502
That might be easier to part with, yes. Mine was the opposite.
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Anonymous
6/26/2025, 10:31:14 AM No.33277260
>>33277259
>Condolences. I think you need to somewhat focus on what needs to be done now, but of course you can mourn and grieve.
it hasn't happened yet - but he probably has weeks/days
>Condolences. I think you need to somewhat focus on what needs to be done now, but of course you can mourn and grieve.
it hasn't happened yet - but he probably has weeks/days
Anonymous
6/26/2025, 10:35:19 AM No.33277264
>>33275476 (OP)
There only so much a man can do for his tard kid (You). Let his memory rest in peace. To do this you must quit evoking his memory for sympathy by wallowing in your grief. Be the man he wished you could be. If he wished nothing more for you than what you are, then that explains why you're here
There only so much a man can do for his tard kid (You). Let his memory rest in peace. To do this you must quit evoking his memory for sympathy by wallowing in your grief. Be the man he wished you could be. If he wished nothing more for you than what you are, then that explains why you're here
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Anonymous
6/26/2025, 10:44:07 AM No.33277276
>>33277264
>To do this you must quit evoking his memory for sympathy by wallowing in your grief
who says I am doing that? he is still alive anyway
>To do this you must quit evoking his memory for sympathy by wallowing in your grief
who says I am doing that? he is still alive anyway
Anonymous
6/26/2025, 10:59:37 AM No.33277291